hot take uh
dont get mad at trans ppl for using the βwrongβ/out of date terminology to describe their own experiences like
if a trans dude saysΒ βback when i was a girlβ orΒ βi was born in the wrong bodyβ just. let them. if they feel it describes their experiences the best, then itβs good for them
as long as theyre not using it to describe other people who may not be comfortable with, itβs ok
THIS. i have had people correct me when i say things like βback when i was a girl.β say things like βno, you were never a girl, you just didnβt know it at that time.β
you are not the arbiter of my lived experience.
i know who i was then. donβt tell me i wasnβt because it doesnβt fit the narrative you want it to. itβs not your damn narrative.
