mwah

you're still loved and respected even if you dont like the way you present right now. your f/os can see beyond your bodies and adores you for the things you do and feel. they dont need to look at you to actually see you for who you are. they love that person, they could recognize them in any form.

youre still loved and respected even if you dont know what you want to go by. its hard to find yourself, harder to give that a name and pronouns, your f/os understand. any experimentation or confusion is met with pride, theyre happy you want to explore yourself, you deserve it. frustration and change is natural and theyre willing to stay by you every step of the way.

youre still loved and respected even if you dont know how you identify. its difficult to put names to feelings sometimes, its ok of you dont know what terms feel right yet. theyre willing to put in the effort to try and understand you even if there might not be a name for it.

youre loved and respected always, in any scenario, because your f/o sees you as a complex person worthy of that love and respect.

if you have pinterest (or any website to find images) and any basic photo editing program (even just powerpoint!), you can have infinite content for your selfship hehe :D

you can make:

moodboards

collages

fake twitter/instagram/social media screenshots

digital merch shrine for your F/O(s)

fake postcards and letters

vision boards to plan date nights and other events

matching outfit/accessories ideas for you and your F/O(s)

matching profile pictures for you and your F/O(s)

post dividers and blog decorations inspired by F/O(s)

presentation explaining why your selfship is canon (it is btw :3)

and so much more!! the only limit is your imagination ^_^