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‼️‼️SUGAR BABIES: YOU SCREEN TOO!!‼️‼️ DO NOT ACCEPT A FAKE NAME “FOR DISCRETION”

AYYYY I told y’all it was good!!! Anyway these are literally the only tips you need

1) Fuck the sites, freestyle or flop

2) No sharing anything personal. Get paid in cash, on Venmo, or in crypto. Cash app will show your real name on their bank statements and Paypal freezes SWers’ money.

3) Don’t fall for flashy shit. Unless they’re giving the flashy shit to you, it means nothing.

4) Your money—don’t fucking blow it and act like you never had money before. Save for a rainy day and invest. Pay off all back expenses you have. You never know when or if he leaves. Also, try to finesse some career tips out of him to help you further your own. I never recommend for girls to be jobless while sugaring. If you ever need to return to the market you’ll have a difficult time finding a job.

5) Learn etiquette, how to dress, and worldly topics.

6) Never let him think your schedule is open. You keep distance until he does/buys you something large enough to prove he deserves it.

7) Treat it like a half assed relationship when you choose to give him affection. Men that fall in love with you give you the world.

8) If they don’t give you the money in time—run. If they give you less than enough money—run. Don’t you sit there and avoid confrontation. That’s how they play you. Sugaring is a negotiation; you want him to give you the most, he wants to give you the least. Make sure his least matches your most (for now) by adding some shaming language in there LMAO. “So that’s how little you paid your last SB? :/” “Why didn’t you take your last girl shopping? Didn’t you want to do nice things for her? :(” “Why would you want to go to x? I’ve always thought it was a bit boring.” This allows you to show that you will not accept everything they throw your way just because they have the money. You have plenty of control too.

9) Safety! Public places only until you know him. Background checks, weapons, yadda yadda. If you don’t know him inside and out, what properties he owns, his liquidity, and all of that, you should by the time you’re done with him. It’s public knowledge. During sex always wear condoms, check for any possible STDs. Keep any cameras faced away from y’all. If you gotta be under the influence to tolerate him he’s not the one. Correct him if he’s doing something wrong or could do it better. You however, better slang the best pussy of your life. 😂😂

She then decided to use that as an excuse to soapbox about her getting “cancelled” after she cheated on her husband with another married man, and it came out and both marriages were broken up because of it.

AYYYY I told y’all it was good!!! Anyway these are literally the only tips you need

1) Fuck the sites, freestyle or flop

2) No sharing anything personal. Get paid in cash, on Venmo, or in crypto. Cash app will show your real name on their bank statements and Paypal freezes SWers’ money.

3) Don’t fall for flashy shit. Unless they’re giving the flashy shit to you, it means nothing.

4) Your money—don’t fucking blow it and act like you never had money before. Save for a rainy day and invest. Pay off all back expenses you have. You never know when or if he leaves. Also, try to finesse some career tips out of him to help you further your own. I never recommend for girls to be jobless while sugaring. If you ever need to return to the market you’ll have a difficult time finding a job.

5) Learn etiquette, how to dress, and worldly topics.

6) Never let him think your schedule is open. You keep distance until he does/buys you something large enough to prove he deserves it.

7) Treat it like a half assed relationship when you choose to give him affection. Men that fall in love with you give you the world.

8) If they don’t give you the money in time—run. If they give you less than enough money—run. Don’t you sit there and avoid confrontation. That’s how they play you. Sugaring is a negotiation; you want him to give you the most, he wants to give you the least. Make sure his least matches your most (for now) by adding some shaming language in there LMAO. “So that’s how little you paid your last SB? :/” “Why didn’t you take your last girl shopping? Didn’t you want to do nice things for her? :(” “Why would you want to go to x? I’ve always thought it was a bit boring.” This allows you to show that you will not accept everything they throw your way just because they have the money. You have plenty of control too.

9) Safety! Public places only until you know him. Background checks, weapons, yadda yadda. If you don’t know him inside and out, what properties he owns, his liquidity, and all of that, you should by the time you’re done with him. It’s public knowledge. During sex always wear condoms, check for any possible STDs. Keep any cameras faced away from y’all. If you gotta be under the influence to tolerate him he’s not the one. Correct him if he’s doing something wrong or could do it better. You however, better slang the best pussy of your life. 😂😂

Step 1. Open Maps on your iPhone and zoom and click on Nice/expensive places in your area.

Note: you need to decide if you’re looking for clients that you likely won’t see unless they’re in town (click on nice hotels) or local POTs/clients (click on everything else ie: men’s clothing stores, cafes, bars, etc.)

Ex:

Step 2: scroll to the bottom and click on “Find out more on yelp” I then look for menn who have left reviews. I usually look for older men who mention that they come to this place all the time, favorite spot, etc. avoid the people who just come to talk shit or talk about how pricy items are.

Ex:

This review is okay, don’t necessarily like that he’s talking about saving on bloody Mary’s lol, but you get the picture.

Step 3: click on the profile.

Ex:

Now I not only have access to the fact he lives in LA, (local POT) I have access to all the places he’s left a review aka PLACES where high quality men frequent aka freestyle spots!! There is also access to his friends which could lead to others like him.

I now know new places to freestyle for what I’m looking for, which is a local POT, that I can see frequently and can eventually become a SD/sponsor.

The next possible step to this could be to comment on his posts, make friends, etc etc… but my goal here isn’t to be engulfed in the Yelp world, my goal is to find legit places to freestyle in order to find local potentials.

I can say that I use this method every now and then, and have found some really nice places in LA that I’ve never even heard of, or that I was somewhat unsure of, and think it’s worth trying.

Let me know what you guys think, any tweaks, successes or failures.

- If you don’t want to have sex: Don’t follow a man back to his hotel room for any reason

- If you are inflexible in your thinking (like demand an allowance from an Experience SD): Don’t be sad when opportunities pass you by

- If you don’t sincerely believe in your self-worth: Don’t expect anyone else to believe in you

- If you don’t criticise or dump a SD for breaking one of your rules or values: Don’t be shocked when he does it again

- If you don’t double check a message before you submit it: Don’t be surprised when you find a mistake

- If you meet a new POT every day of the week: Don’t complain about feeling drained and empty. Take a break

- If you share your SB status and stories with normal friends: Expect them to have judgements about your decisions. Everyone has different values so don’t expect them to be supportive or anything :/ My friends think I just meet a lot of people from Tinder (and judge the shit out of me for it)

- If you really put yourself out there and message a lot of POTs: Expect to be judged and criticised and rejected

- If you don’t put yourself out there: Don’t expect to fall into the perfect arrangement just by breathing and existing

- If you do something nice for people: Don’t expect kindness from them back. Kindness will always find kind people but perhaps from a different source

- If you ask a man to leave you: Don’t cry when he actually leaves

Essentially what I learnt is that projecting unreasonable expectations on people is what makes me sad. It’s better to expect more from yourself.

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