collection of cats !

🗝️ collective information :

- we collectively use sam & mikey as names, as well as they/them pronouns ; any neos are welcome .

- we all identify with being agender + lesbian aroace-spec and are taken by our lovely partner <3

- did you know we rlly love our amazing and supportive partner ? oh ! you don’t ? Darn ,,, it would just be a shame if we told you how much we love them

. . . fun fact : we’ve had a special interest in psychology since we were in elementary school !

🦇 boundaries :

- dni ; basic criteria , proship / darkship , incest , non-traumagenic systems , demonize / romanticize cluster b disorders ( ill add more if i need to )

- thin ice ; endogenic neutrals — fine to follow , but i will be picky with who I interact with .

- byf ; we only talk about our experiences and what has been currently researched and proven about dissociative disorders + yap and correct misconceptions and misinformation angrily sometimes .

. . . don’t use our blog by itself to self diagnose . you have a higher chance of being incorrect than you think . please do real , high quality research that isn’t from social media !

. . . main acc - @spookbooo

. . . leons side - @leonsign

"you're just used to everyone handing you everything; people catering to you"

That's something our current caregiver says despite the knowledge of our neglect.

Neglect is often looked over, especially emotional neglect. No matter what kind of neglect a child experiences, it will still have life altering effects from social and emotional aspects, to physical.

Neglect is a form of abuse as it's literally a parents lack of giving their children what they need whether it's materialistic or not.

Back to the quote at the top. This has become one of our insecurities the more we've grown. Even though our family has told us on multiple occasions that it's not that at all. It's hard when people tell you things that aren't true, and you know them to be untrue, yet you believe it anyway.