Alright, after receiving a death threat I have to respond to the statements made about me.
Number one: B’s statements. I know who this person is and I know both accounts they’ve said. The pool one first. Our relationship was very much centered around our sexuality and how comfortable we were with each other. Especially since (at the time of) they were a cis gay man and I was a non-binary person. Us being not attracted to each other was a way for both of us at the time to be comfortable in our own skin. Though I don’t remember saying what they said I had said, I may have. And I apologize for that. It was mean and inconsiderate of their feelings.
The second thing B said. At the time I was spending the night with a couple friends. They hadn’t planned for me to sleep there so my only options were to 1 sleep in a bed of three people at the foot of the bed (in which I barely knew two of the people in said bed), 2 sleep with my (at the time) best friend of 2-3 years, or sleep on the floor. I chose to sleep on the floor at first but as the night progressed my back started to seriously hurt. So out of the two options of either the bed or the small couch with my best friend, I took the second option. I didn’t speak to them, I didn’t wake them up. I did get under their blanket but I faced away from them (so I could get on my phone). I don’t know of spooning them or talking to them. I left before they woke up but after everyone else had woken up.
Onto the last statement the second B. I do not recognize the initial. I do not know anyone who was in 6th when I was in 8th with that initial. The only Halloween parties I went to that year were the Halloween party at school in which I was consoling a friend because they were having a panic attack. I stayed with them the whole night. And the other was at a close friends house with other friends of my age. I apologize for not knowing you or knowing what you’re talking about.
Last but not least, R. To start this night did happen, it was mid summer June or July. They wanted to spend the night like so many nights before. I gave them not one but two couches to sleep on (a floral older couch which I do not own anymore and my current couch). They chose to snuggle with me which was okay with me because we did all the time. Eventually I was on my phone talking to my current boyfriend when they wrapped their arms around me and propped their thigh on mine. They asked to kiss amongst other things and I agreed to do so. No hands went below the belt. I will agree, as the older person in the scenario I should have said no and I should have persisted in my no if they persisted. I did not. It was wrong of me as the older individual.
I won’t say I’ve done nothing wrong, because I have made some mistakes. I’m no saint. But lying on the internet like this after 6 months of silence is absurdly childish. Getting death threats is childish. Getting bombarded with getting called a coward, a loser, a pedophile, that’s childish.
The screenshots from messages are at least 7-8 months old and that’s only one of the most recent screenshot. The others are older than that. I am currently 17, I turn 18 in February. Most of those I was 14-16. Sending things about underage characters is wrong in a situation where you’re A.) not in a safe space and B.) an adult. I was neither of those things. As for the Menherachan art, I will not apologize for that. And the “fake claiming” I was doing was me saying that It was unlikely for multiple people who know each other to be systems. I never said they weren’t a system, just said it was unlikely for three people of the same age, at the same time, in the same town, who all knew each other.
That’s all I have to say. Thanks for taking the time to hear my side of the story.
