I Think I’m Nonbinary?

So my “best friend” lives 45 minutes away when she’s even here, visiting her fiancé, and we had made plans a few weeks ago to go out last night. I text her yesterday to make sure we were still on, she tells me no, she has work and then a tattoo appointment to go to. We share location. At like 6 pm I look at what tattoo shop she ended up going to, 2 minutes from my house. Within walking distance. So naturally I blow up her phone lol and she said she told me she was getting a tattoo. She literally stopped at my job. So I’m obviously upset. But I tell her to have a nice time.

So when I am at work, on the main register for our store, on occasion…I like to have some fun and see if I pass as more masculine. I wear a binder every day, nothing new, but the past few days I’ve been intentionally deepening my voice and this cute old man was walking away from me after he was done checking out, makes eye contact, like DEEP eye contact, and says, “you have a good day too, young man.”