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PAYPAL IS TRYING TO SLIP THE RUG UNDER US. Or they may have said this and just no one read about it or noticed/knew.

OKAY SO BEFORE YOU SEND ANY MONEY FOR THAT AWESOME COMMISSION YOU WANT TO BUY FROM THAT AWESOME ARTIST. PLEASE STOP AND READ THIS.

Paypal changed the look of how you will fill out information and send money. Thus, you need to be super careful. Don’t go all willy nilly through and be like “Yeah yeah yeah send” you need to stop when you see this screen right away.

Before you proceed, you will first notice one major thing: your address is showing. What you need to do if you are ordering a DIGITAL WORK (aka, it is being sent to you via the interwebz) is you need to click on your address and there around be a drop down menu of 3 (or more) options:

No address needed

Your Current Address

+ Add a new shipping address

Be sure to select “No address needed”, it is very important that you do. If you leave your address in there, Paypal will assume that you are to receive a physical package. A physical package which needs proof that exists physically. Paypal will want the artist to provide shipping labels and tracking info on said package. This is bad, very, very bad. Artists can get in trouble if they cannot provide these things.

Please, if an artist asks to send you back your money so that you can send it again correctly, do not be offended. You are paying them to do your commission, how can they do your commission with no money?

Then go to order status and set to “Processed/Service Rendered.”

This will let paypal know that the order was a digital good, and no shipping was required.

Anxiety

“Why are you so shy?”

Anxiety

“Why don’t you try new things?”

Anxiety

“Why-”

🌸 you’re never too young to start thinking about your gender and sexuality.

🌸 But don’t stress yourself out about it. It’s not a race. There’s no time limit.

🌸 There’s nothing wrong with you I promise. I know your family or religion may say otherwise but please trust me.

🌸 I know it’s hard but please remember you’re not alone. You’re not alone among your peers. And those of us who have gone before you are here to help you along the way.

🌸 There will be people who cannot stand you. I’m sorry. The world is changing but so very slowly.

🌸 Support one another. Spread love and acceptance. Don’t fall into the traps of division in the community. We’re stronger together.

🌸 It gets better. It does. It gets better. Please don’t give up yourself.

by wanderingYew2

A. That’s fetishizing and creepy.