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To be short and sweet, I will not be actively pursuing thing blog for the time being.

I am saying that I will it be constantly as active as I was or was trying to be when I first started this blog and was actively posting on it. I will still post when ever I feel the need to, but I will not being physically on this blog as much as before. I will occasionally post when I feel like it and this blog will not longer be my second main blog.

After months of contemplating what I would do with this blog after the events of the past few months (If you do not know what I am talking about, please feel free to check out my past posts concerning the situation.) I have decided that as much as I enjoy posting content for these fandoms, I do not enjoy the blind eye of the fandom.

I have multiple followers and I know multiple people who are not like that, this is not about them, if you get upset at what I say, you might be the issue here.

I have found that multiple mechat & LoveLink fans are willing to write off or completely ignore, and what I mean is that they flat out don’t believe or even admit, that these fandoms are toxic in multiple ways do to not only the company’s that make the games, but the fan behavior in them. Saying “oh no there is nothing wrong with these fandoms fanbase, if anything it’s completely nonexistent.” And then ignoring literal evidence, even on the wiki forms,Reddit,Ao3, and even here.

I don’t think it’s a good idea for me to settle down and make this one of my main blog, when it’s the fandom that has made me uncomfortable writing and being in it. It’s just not good for my mind set.

I want to say thank you to everyone who has stuck with me thought everything with this blog. Like I said, I will still be making content but not as much. I hope that I can still keep everyone who has supported me satisfied when I am able to post on here.

TW, talks of death threats,rape,drugging,kidnapping.

Honestly, I never expected any of this to happen. Besides the stuff that was sent to me, which is already disturbing and sickening in its own right, is the fact that most of the text that where sent to me where basically…..crude words directed at the fact that I didn’t make that kind of content, stuff about me being a soft wimp and so on. The rest where basic death threats along with things like “I hope you like getting drugged” and “ bitches like wish they could get raped” and it didn’t make me feel any safer because most of those kinds of threats where sent though my social media. I have sense deleted my IG.

I said that I didn’t want to talk about any of those topics anymore because it made me uncomfortable, twice. But people kept commenting or messaging me about stuff, egging it all on or putting words in my mouth. Someone was even making posts about me saying I was “Trying to take away their freedom of speech & enforcing old government laws of media restrictions” which I never said or even pressed on in any of my statements.

To be quite honest, I'm just tired of it all. I'm tired of all of the hate.... For just putting my opinions and boundaries on MY blog. All I asked was for people to respect my boundaries, as the mod on this blog. If people didn't like that I'm not comfortable with the stated stuff, and I’m not ok with making that kind of content for my blog either, they could easily unfollow my blog or just stay away from it. There was no need for any of this.

I think taking a break from all of this is my best bet. I think I need a few weeks away to get my mind in order. This is the first time I have ever had any of this stuff happen to me, and I have been in some pretty toxic fandoms. I really just need the time to get my thoughts straight, because right now my two thoughts are that I come back and keep posting on the blog or I keep the fics I have and either abandon this blog completely or delete it fully.

I want to say a quick thanks before I go on this small hiatus, to all of the followers that support me and my work, along with everyone who has commented and spoken to me with support and encouragement. Thank you all for the much needed support during this time of reflection for me and this blog.

I hope to talk to you all next month with a updated on my decision for this blog.

TW, Talks of social media stalking, via message harassment, sending of rape & kidnapping NSFW videos/Porn, death threats.

Since I posted about not supporting a character from lovelink do to....multiple things in his story route, I have gotten not only just normal hate, but things that have taken it way to far for me personally.

Within two weeks of posting a simple “if you don't like the fact that I as the mod on this blog don't support kidnapping & drugging themed things, get off my blog.” I was met with people sending that exact post linked with disturbing & horrific amounts of graphic kidnapping, rape, and drugged rape porn. Honestly some of them I could tell where fake and just fantasy....but some were not.

I also had someone stalk some of my social media sites and send me death threats and more porn.

I never thought that it would get this bad. There for I need to get away from this blog for a while until I feel like I can handle going back to writing for this fandom.

But.

TW, Food poisoning symptom details

I did though, get food poisoning the day I left the shelter and developed symptoms over that night. So that why I didn’t update, I just got back on my phone because I was so sick that I couldn’t even look at anything bright. Iv been laying in my room or laying on my bathroom floor in the dark throwing up.💀

I haven’t eaten in 2 days but I just got up a hour or two ago and was able to keep a piece of toast and half a bottle of water down, so that’s something.

This makes me extremely uncomfortable at this point and I no longer want talk about it. It's physical making me sick.

Especially the things people have been sending me.

TW ahead

I really want to take a screen of the comments I found on the Reddit and his wiki because it's-

Fuck!!!!!! I can't even!

I literally found comments on Reddit with people literally saying that “their starting to be ok with Stockholm syndrome” because of him!!!!!!!! Wtf!!!

I hate how people are literally pushing the horrible disgusting plot away just because he’s “attractive” fun fact too, he’s not even that attractive to be honest.

And literal what you said. It would have been completely fine, a completely ok story, if they didn’t add DRUGGING & KIDNAPPING to it!!!! Literally just take it out and it would have a normal ok plot and no one would have a problem with it.

And to be honest, I don’t want to know that any of these people, who are now talking about it like they are, are having kidnapping and drugging sex fantasies.

I just want to say as a whole of my blog, if you don't like that I didn't condone kidnapping, drugging and rape, then get the fuck off my blog.

True, but at the same time, when you are a writer or in my opinion a good writer, you think about the repercussions of where your story leads. You have to think about the topic and territory of your story. When you put “Drugging & kidnapping” together, most people are going to think “of their will probably be some sort of abuse or sexual assault” especially when you bring in the mafia. Because it’s a tactic for mafias and gangs to break people. Also the thing is, pushing his “consenting” thing means nothing after this. No right minded person is going to consent to a relationship after a person drugs & kidnaps them, if they do then they honestly need to get some kind of help.

⚠️TW ahead⚠️

Definitely agree with you, and I love the fact that you included researching this kind of stuff because people usually don’t and they don't see how it actually affects people, actually not just people but the reading world and genre as a whole as well.

The whole “mafia” trend was really big during the early and mid-2010s and honesty should have ended and stayed back in that period. The number of people who were affected by those works was horrendous in my opinion.

Not to judge anyone, that’s never what I intend, but I know people who now have really fucked up ideologies and kinks from reading that shit at a young age and thinking it was “hot” and “attractive” and now have really….weird habits. I honestly don't even want to talk about the stuff some of those people have told me, the sick fantasies they have & even participated in because they read it in a book like that. Like I don’t.

To be honest, I’m not going to fully shame anyone for reading them, just because I do know that those story’s will always be out there and people will still make them. But I don’t think people should be making the mafias and even gangs into a fetish. Especially their actions.

Drugging, kidnapping & rape should never be made into a fetish.

For me personally there is a line I drew for mafia story’s. I’ll happily explain that line if anyone wants me to but it’s not relevant to this post, to be honest, so I’ll leave it for another time.

What do your junk about love links new character he drugs and kidnaps you but apparently ‘‘cares about you and just has to do this you understand right? 🥺’’ I wouldn’t be surprised if they made him r*pe her next. It’s literally so disgusting but I seem to actually be the only person who sees the problem in it. They do have a disclaimer but it’s the fact that it’s still an awful trope to have considering they’re literally romanticising r*pe and kidnapping/drugging when that happens to thousands of women all the time and a lot of men. It’s probably literally happening to a women somewhere in the world rn as I’m typing this out. That’s how often we have to fear for ourselves and its a joke or a cute love story to them?

⚠️TW ahead!!⚠️

Honestly I wouldn't have posted this but after reading this a few times..... I'm going to address this because it does need to be said.

I completely agree with you on this.

I recently in the past month matched with him and did his story. I also did some research on him on both the wiki and the Reddit page. What I found was extremely weird & uncomfortable at ahead.

Where I do understand the plot of the story, I feel like it kinda went too far, even with what little we have for the first part of his story that is out. Besides the actual character and story itself, the amount of support I have seen from the fandom for his character, based on just how attractive he is and not the disturbing story, it’s really gross to me.

The heavy undertones are extremely disturbing too me, even as someone who use to enjoy the old “mafia” styled storys/fics. The drugging and kidnapping went way to far for me personally. And like I said the undertone of the whole thing is just so uncomfortable.

They do give a warning for his date, but even then I don’t like it. I thought of LoveLink being a more safe and funny app, even with some of the more questionable characters it has. To be honest, where I would try and convince someone to try the app I now really don’t. Not after I have to explain that one of the matches will drug you and kidnap you. It’s just uncomfortable.

And with the whole rape thing…. Yeah I could see where the story could turn in that direction, and it creeps me out.