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My husband and I have a long-standing relationship and have been interested into hotwife lifestyle for more than 5 years. Until now, everything was just fantasy, but things have changed recently. 😶 I have experienced one of the turning points of my life in the last few weeks. During our trip abroad with my husband, I fvcked someone else other than him for the first time in my life. 😳 I am now officially a hotwife. 😳

My bull was younger and more experienced than us. We hosted him in our hotel room and I let him use my every single hole for a whole day. 🫠

While he was fucking me, my husband did not join us, sometimes he watched, but most of the time he left us alone and went to wander around the city. 🫠

This experience gave me some firsts in my life:

- For the first time in my life, someone other than my husband fvcked my pvssy and cvm inside. 😶

- For the first time in my life, someone other than my husband fvcked my @ss and cvm inside. 😶

- I had given a blowj0b before, but since the day I met my husband, this was the first time I gave a blowj0b to someone other than him and let him cvm in my mouth. 🤤

What did I feel? I don't feel the slightest guilt towards my husband. 🫢 He always supports me being a hotwife. This is who I am, I can't stop the slvt inside me. 🫠 What I experienced was pure pleasure. It was a wonderful feeling to kiss another man’s horny lips, get lost under his arms, to take in every inches of his big cock, to feel it hardening inside me. 🤤

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Had several people asking about the update from this week’s play date for @volhotwife14. Incredibly hot as usual! Since Tumblr only allows me to attach 10 images here, there’s a couple of details I’ll provide below since I couldn’t include the entire conversation.

First of all… “where did he cum?” will be the number 1 question I get. He actually didn’t cum this time. Yes, even hotwife life is real life and sometimes these things can happen. They still massively enjoyed their time together. So nothing to read into there. He made her cum “at least 4-5 times” from what she told me, along with squirting a couple of times so I think she’s very satisfied with how it went!

Secondly, I thought this was kinda hilarious, but she was also kind enough to feed him an edible before he left. Pretty great service, right?? Amazing sex with a smoking hot woman and then she gives you some weed on your way out?? 😂 He had never had one before and it took him on a pretty hilarious multi-hour journey.

Lastly, YES! Sex with her afterward was intense and amazing as it ALWAYS is. She teased me, telling me all the dirty things she did as I licked her pussy. She gave me an amazing slow blow job while looking me in the eyes and telling me what a slut she was for him. She also started describing in detail how our cocks are different. This was a very real reminder that just a few hours ago another man’s cock was passing by those same lips now wrapped around mine.

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What is hotwifing and how can hotwifing save marriages? Contrary to pornography lore, hotwifing, hot wife or hotwife is not a physical description, it is a powerful emotionally supportive state of marriage. Any woman can be a hotwife regardless of their physical attributes. To define, a hotwife is a married woman in a strong committed marriage who makes herself sexually available to other men for hotwife dates either with or without her husband present. She does this with her husband’s full knowledge and consent. In hotwifing the husband yields the traditional role of sexual dominance to his wife. The husband always remains willingly and faithfully monogamous to his hotwife which is referred to as a stag husband. All of his sexual desires are focused on his wife having sex with other men and all of his pleasures are derived in the intimacy his hotwife provides him. Hotwives may wear very sexy clothing, usually purchased for them by their stag husbands and flirt outrageously with other men in order to achieve the hotwife date. Hotwives may openly display hotwife jewelry that lets men know they are married and available. She may desire her husbands help in arranging her dates. In any case the husband cedes the decision as to whom his hotwife has sex with. Hotwifing is not about humiliation or denigration, it is rather a form of loving emotional control both psychologically and physically. The hotwife always balances her husbands physical needs and wants and her psychological control of him in her role as the hotwife. A stag husband may desire to watch, participate or happily await the return of his hotwife from her date so that she can share all the details of it with him. The stag husband is given secondary, but equal, sexual importance. The hotwife builds and caresses his ego through her dominance and she never forgets to give her husband sexual satisfaction. So how can all of that save your marriage?

For couples that have experienced infidelity like we did, hotwifing allows them to renew their vows of commitment to each other and start their marriage from a new point together rather than apart. Most importantly it leaves the past in the past because in the new vows the couple commits to focusing exclusively on the future and each other.

Hotwifing gives women the ability to fulfill their wildest sexual fantasies with the encouragement of their husbands. Research has shown that many couples have hotwifing fantasies, but most of them are unable to express themselves because they fear what their partner might think of them. This single misunderstanding of sexual desire is one of the leading causes of the high divorce rate. For a woman one of the many potential benefits of hotwifing in a marriage is the open and uninhibited fulfillment all her sexual desires within the realm of real and honest marital commitment from her husband. It is really simple, stag husbands won’t cheat because they have no need or desire to. For men it boosts their understanding of female sexuality and it frees them of jealousy, which is the number one poison to relationships. Imagine a life free of jealousy and you will find true happiness and peaceful harmony in balance with unlimited love for one another.

Hotwifing empowers wives with freedom. The wife gets the freedom to enjoy the full experiences of sex. Women often desire and routinely fantasize about having sex with men other than their husbands. In the old taboo society they rarely got that chance because of deep seeded jealousy. When a man freely encourages his wife to enjoy the sexual pleasures of other men, he is undeniably giving her his heart and soul. He is directly displaying trust in their marriage. The husband enjoys the ability to control his normal feelings of jealousy so his wife can experience a new kind of intimacy free of guilt. This can be of great spiritual and emotional comfort to both the husband and wife.

Hotwifing frees wives from the jealousy of their husbands. It is a proven fact that jealousy is one of the major reasons many relationships fail. Insecurity is a leading contributing factor in disagreements and breakups that result in divorce. Hotwifing can help to rid the man of his feelings of jealousy, and when he gives his wife the freedom to be who she wants to be, she knows her husband has her best interests at heart, which helps her to increase her trust in him. Hotwifing creates trust and communication within relationships. Solid relationships are built upon trust and open communication. If you want to be in a happy, lasting relationship, you must ensure that you understand each other and also give each other the chance and freedom to be yourselves. These kinds of open and honest conversations increase trust and communication between the couple and bring them closer together. 

Hotwifing makes wives feel beautiful and desired. As a man, you will feel that you actually have the hottest woman on earth, and it’s every man’s desire to have a woman who is another man’s dream. Hotwifing gives men the perfect chance to appreciate how beautiful and desirable his woman is, which typically serves to increase both his love and respect for her. Ultimately hotwifing can help a mans libido. In some instances it has been known to assist a husband to overcome some forms of E.D.

Hotwifing boosts marital confidence. It gives women a real chance to express themselves to their husbands. When a woman knows that she has the support of her husband to do whatever she desires, she feels incredibly self confident about herself, which helps to change her perception of the traditional societal roles of husbands and wives

Hotwifing increases intimacy by giving both the husband and wife the perfect chance to gain important knowledge about themselves and each other that can help increase the intimacy of their connection. The new adventures and the wide variety of options dramatically deepen a couple’s marital bond making it strong, confident and trustworthy.

Hotwifing provides a greater sense of sexual confidence and satisfaction for both husband and wife. Hotwifing actually saves marriages. Yes you heard that right, it can save a marriage. I can tell you without hesitation that it saved mine even if it took my husband nearly 20 years to realize it. Hotwifing creates a perfect platform for couples to attain both mental and physical satisfaction. The wife is able to have sex with men she desires, which quenches her thirst that in a traditional monogamous marriages might otherwise lead her to affairs and betrayals.

Even after feeling the sting of betrayal couples can use hotwifing to regain trust, because hotwifing requires 100 percent honesty from both husband and wife. Honesty is the one element of hotwing that is non negotiable. Gone are the days of living secret lies and affairs. Women have said that while they knew their husband thought they were beautiful, being desired by other men was even more validating to them. “Your husband is supposed to think you’re beautiful.” When wives feel they are no longer perceived as beautiful they can become depressed and cheat to make themselves feel wanted again. Couples that can together successfully negotiate the absolute intimacy and unique boundaries provided by hotwifing can easily save even the most troubled, stale and dissatisfied marriage. It gives couples a new freedom to describe to each other their most base, deepest secrets and sexual desires. Couples say that after the wife has sex with other men, their own sex lives were newly fueled, and the couple had sex the way they did when they first started dating.

Scientifically the fuel to this fire may be found in the neurochemistry and biology of sperm competition. Hotwifing couples essentially subvert mechanisms intended to prevent illicit pregnancies, co-opting our basic biological processes to serve a role in fanning the flames of the marriage long past the time they might have normally subsided into a relationship where sex is ok on occasion but primarily viewed as not necessary by one or both. Sex at 40, 50, 60, 70 and beyond can take on new exciting prospects that can be of well documented health benefits for the couple. Research has shown that older couples with a healthy and frequent sex life are often happier and tend to live longer more fulfilling lives. Overall the positive effects of hotwifing in marriage are far greater than many people could possibly imagine.

Hotwifing is no longer a dirty little “secret” confined to swingers clubs by adventurous 30 somethings. It is rapidly becoming a mainstream norm for mature couples to help rescue their failing marriages and keep them forever secure.

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Waste the day with me, undress and get naked with me, play with me, make love to me, make memories with me.

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On a scale of 1 to 10,

with 10 being you are very interested, 5 being neutral and 1 being not at all interested,

please answer these following questions:

Becoming a hotwife?

Caging your husband’s cock?

Having sex with other men while your husband only watches?

Having sex with other men without your husband there?

Having sex with other men and your hushed at the same time?

Having anal sex?

Role playing with your husband?

Having a secrete lover that your husband doesn’t know about?

Having one time sex with men without your husband knowing?

Playing with sex toys?

Playing with bondage?

Going to nude beaches?

Watching your husband have sex with another woman?

Having sex with another woman in front of your husband?

Having sex alone with another woman?

Having your husband film you having sex?

Letting your husband pick men to share you with?

Having a monogamous relationship with your husband?

Going on vacation alone to have sex with other men?

Going on vacation with your husband and having sex with other men?

Going to a female strip club with your husband?

Going to a female strip club without your husband?

Going to a male strip club with your husband

Going to a male strip club without your husband?

Stripping at a bachelor or private party for a group of men?

Serving men during a football game or poker night wearing seductive clothing?

Sending men you meet online sexy photos and videos?

Sharing your messages/conversations with your husband that you have with other men?

Keeping secret you conversations with other men?

Edging your husband husband close to orgasm and then denying him repeatedly?

Ruining your husbands orgasms?

Limiting your husbands orgasms?

Making your husband clean his cum out/off of you?

Making your husband clean another man’s cum out/off of you?

Surprising your husband with a used pussy when you get home?

Making your husband suck another man’s cock in front of you?

Making your husband clean off the cum from another man that just fucked you?

Kissing your husband after another man came in your mouth?

Having your husband lick your clit while another man fucks your pussy?

Having you husband lick your clit while another man fucks your ass?

Having your husband lick your asshole while another man fucks your pussy?

Making your husband were a cock extension when he has sex with you?

Making your husband wear a cock cage in front of other men you are fucking?

Make your husband where a cock cage when he works?

Make you husband wear a cock cage while you watch porn and masturbate?

Make you husband were a gag dildo and you fuck his face?

Trying to stretch your pussy to take a fist?

Trying to stretch your asshole to take a fist?

Wearing an anal plug at home?

Wearing an anal plug out in public?

Having sex in your marital bed with another man?

Having sex only with men that do not know where you live?

Having sex with men you and your husband know personally?

Having sex with your husband’s friends?

Having sex with a coworker?

Having sex with your boss?

Answering the door nude?

Walking around the house daily nude?

Swinging or swapping partners with another couple?

Participating in a gangbang (3 or more men at the same time) with your husband there?

Participating in a gangbang (3 or more men at the same time) without your husband there?

Masturbating alone with toys?

Masturbating alone without toys?

Masturbating in front of your husband?

Masturbating in front of a bull?

Mutual masturbating with your husband or bull?

Sucking cock?

Sucking big cock, 8+ inches

Sucking small cock, less than 5 inches?

Having sex with big cocks?

Having sex with small cocks?

Getting a tattoo?

Getting piercings?

Getting your nipple pierced?

Getting your clit pierced?

Getting your bellybutton pierced?

Getting matching tattoos?

Wearing a hotwife anklet?

Wearing the key to your husband’s cock cage lock?

Squirting?

Letting your husband give you an enema?

Using a sex toy on your husband?

Fucking your husband with a dildo?

Fucking your husband with a strap-on dildo?

Being blindfolded during sex with your husband?

Blindfolding your husband during sex?

Tying your husband to the bed for sex?

Allowing your husband to listen on the phone to you having sex with another man?

Taking photos of you having sex with another man and sending them to your hubsand?

Video taping you having sex with another man and then showing your husband when you return?

Having your husband reclaim you after you have sex with other men?

Going to a sex club and allowing other strangers to watch you have sex with your husband?

Going to a sex club to meet other men to have sex with in front of strangers?

Going to a sex club to only watch others having sex?

Going to a sex club without your husband?

Going to a nude resort on vacation without your husband?

Going on vacation without your husband?

Allowing your husband to go to a sex club without you?

Allowing your husband to go on vacation without you?

100.Flashing your husband in public?

101.Having sex in public places?

102.Going out in a skirt without panties?

103.Having sex in a car or limo?

104.Having sex in the back of a car with a man while your husband drives?

105.Having your husband drive you to meet your date and then having him pick you up?

106.Having your husband thank your bull for fucking you good?

107.Having your husband ask your bulls to cum in you?

108.Always having to ask for permission from your husband before having sex with anyone else?

109.Having the freedom to have sex with anyone you want any time you want without your husband’s permission?

110.Accidentally getting pregnant by another man?

111.Getting pregnant by another man with you husband permission?

112.Having sex with string muscular men?

113.Having sex with men over 50?

114.Having sex with men under 30?

115.Having sex with black men?

116.Having sex for money?

117.Having sex while your husband is hiding in the closet?

118.Having sex while your while your husband is in the guest room?

119.Having your husband bring your drinks while you have sex with another man?

120.Have your husband shave you?

121.Have your husband watch you get ready for a date with another man?

122.Have your husband help you prepare for a date with another man?

123. Have your husband tied up and caged while you have sex with another man in the same room?

124.Have your husband tied up and caged while you have sex with another man in the same an adjoining room where he can only hear the moans?

125.Clean the house naked?

126.Cook naked?

127.Be waiting naked at the door when your husband got home from work?

128.Be waiting naked at the door when your date comes to visit?

129.Give a stranger you met in a bar a blow job or have sex in the bar bathroom?

130.Give a stranger you met in a bar a blow job or have sex with him in the parking lot?

131.Let another man finger you in a public place?

132.Dance with hot men at clubs?

133.Flirt with hot men at bars?

134.Go on vacations with other men without your husband?

135.Have one man fuck you in the ass while another man fucks your pussy?

136.Have one man fuck your ass while another fucks your pussy and another fucks your mouth?

137.Continue living a hotwife lifestyle if you become pregnant?

138.Stop living the hotwife lifestyle if you became pregnant?

139.Only have sex with your husband?

140. Allowing your husband to lick your pussy anytime he wants?

141.Allowing your husband to fuck your pussy anytime he wants?

142.Allowing your husband to fuck your ass anytime he wants?

143.Giving your husband a blow job anytime her wants?

144.Making your husband lick your pussy anytime you want?

145. Making your husband fuck you whenever you demand?

146.Get massages from your husband?

147.Get massages from other men?

148.Get massages from women?

149.Let other women give your husband full body massages?

150.Suck a cock after it’s been in your pussy?

151.Suck a cock after it was in your ass?

152.Be treated like a Princess in public but a whore in the bed?

153.Rough sex?

154.Talking dirty during sex?

155.Telling your husband about other men you have fucked during sex?

156.Using a cock cage on your husband to get things that you want sexually?

157.Using a cock cage to get your husband to reach goals..like weight loss…

158.Vacations were only you and your husband have sex together?

159.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once per week?

160.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once every two weeks?

161.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once per month?

162.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once every two or three months?

163.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once or twice per year?

164.Having your husband surprise you by planning sexual adventures/nights which include other men?

165.Having sex in a pool?

166.Having sex in a hot tub?

167.Having sex in a shower?

168.Having sex on a boat?

169.Having sex in a plane?

170.Keeping secrets from your husband?

171.Using floggers/whips/paddles?

172.Having your husband use flogger or spank you when you are bad?

173.Using a flogger or spanking your husband if he is bad

174.Wearing a ball gage while you have sex?

175.Making your husband wear a ball gag?

176.Making your husband cum inside is cage?

177.Play with hot wax?

178.Explore robe bondage?

179.Share your sex life relationship on a Tumblr blog, but hid your identities?

180.Shop at a adult book store with your husband?

181.Shop at an adult book store alone?

182.Shop at an adult book store with a man other than your husband?

183.Go to a bar with your husband but pretend you don’t know him and flirt with others while he watches?

184.Drive around in a car naked?

185.Be driven in a car naked?

186.Grow old with your husband?

187.Divorce you husband when he gets too old?

188.Have an open relationship where husband and wife can have sex with others?

189.Never allowing your husband to have sex with any other woman?

190.Allowing your husband to have sex with another woman only with your permission and by your rules?

191.Setting up rules for being a hotwife?

192.Setting up punishments for breaking the rules?

193.Sharing all of your personal communication outlets and passwords with your husband including phone messages and all social media messaging?

194.Having all of your husband’s communication and social media passwords?

195.Allowing your husband to make all the rules?

196.Playing the dominant role and having your husband play a submissive role all of the time?

197.Playing the dominant role and having your husband play a submissive role most of the time?

198.Playing the submissive role and having your husband play a dominant role all of the time?

199.Playing the submissive role and having your husband play a dominant role most of the time?

200.Alternating about 50/50 between playing the submissive role and dominant roles with our husband?

201.Have your bulls be dominant?

202.Have your bulls be submissive?

203.Becoming friends with your bulls?

204.Have the same bulls long term rather than many strangers?

205.Have the bull always wear condoms?

206.Have the bulls not wear condoms?

207.Allowing the husband to stop a date or sex at anytime for any reason without getting mad?

208.Allowing your husband to decide he wants you to stop being a hotwife and live a monogamous traditional lifestyle?

209.Having kids with your husband?

210.Being wealthy?

211.Always telling the truth?

212.Always getting the truth from your husband?

213.Trying new sex positions?

214.Trying new sex techniques?

215.Watching porn with your husband?

216.Watching porn alone?

217.Privacy while talking to other en on the phone?

218.Privacy while on the computer chatting with other men?

219.Fulfilling your husbands fantasies?

220.Fulfilling your fantasies?

221.Sharing your fantasies with your husband?

222.Hearing your husband’s fantasies?

223.Having a fit muscular husband?

224.Using nipple clamps during sex?

225.Having your husband use a pussy pump on you?

226.Using a penis pump on your husband?

227.Using a sex swing with your husband?

228.Using a sex swing with other men?

229.Role playing with your husband (doctor/patient, student/teacher, master/slave)

230.Playing sex games with your husband?

231.Playing sex games with others?

232.Hiding your sexual activities from friends and family?

233.Having similar interests are your husband?

234.You husband having similar interests as you?

235.Sacrificing to give you husband pleasure?

236.You husband sacrificing to give you pleasure?

237.Sleeping naked in bed with your husband nightly?

238.Having your husband wake you up in the middle of the night for sex?

239.Waking your husband up in the middle of the night for sex?

240.Knowing where your husband is all the time?

241.Spending nights in bed alone without your husband?

242.Always sleeping with your husband?

243.Always sleeping with someone?

244.Never sleeping alone?

245.Showing public displays of affection?

246.Having sex while having your period?

247.Playfully humiliating your husband when having sex alone with him?

248.Playfully humiliating your husband with having sex with another man in front of you husband?

On a scale of 1 to 10,

with 10 being you are most important and 1 being not important at all,

please answer these following questions:

How important is:

Trust in your marriage?

Sex in your marriage?

Honesty in your marriage?

Wealth in your marriage?

Health in your marriage?

Kids in your marriage?

Having time to spend with your friends?

Having time alone?

Having time to spend with family?

Sharing home chores?

Shopping together?

Working together?

Both having jobs?

Being a housewife?

How many kids do you want to have?

How would you feel if you had no kids with your husband?

Can you accept being a stepmother and treat your husbands kids as your own?

How would you feel about becoming pregnant by a man other than your husband?

At what age do you want to retire?

Where would you like to live when you retire?

What is an ideal sized home for you and your husband?

A. very small, 1 bedroom, 1 bathroom, living room, kitchen, laundry room

B. small - 2 bedroom, living room, kitchen, laundry room

C. medium - 2-3 bedrooms, living room, dining room, kitchen, laundry room, game room

D. large -3-4 bedrooms, living room, dining room, kitchen, laundry room, game room, garage, big yard

E. very big - 3-4 bedrooms, living room, dining room, kitchen, laundry room, game room, large yard, garage, pool

Explain why that is your ideal home size:

Would you rather go to the movies or watch a movie at home?

Who do you prefer does the:

(husband, wife, both equally, husband most of the time, wife most of the time)

Laundry

Cooking

Cleaning

Making the bed Yard work

Gardening

Driving

Shopping

Dishes

Banking/accounting

Work - earring money

Initiating sex

Ironing

Decorating

Planning vacations

Deciding where to spend money

How many times a month would be an ideal number of time to have sex?

Do you think men or women desire sex more?

What are your true feelings about the hotwife or vixen lifestyle?

Do you feel you that a hotwife or vixen lifestyle is right for you? Explain

How important is your partners appearance?

How important is your husband’s physical appearance?

Are you interested in becoming a hotwife/vixen?

Why or why not:

What rules would you like to have if living a non traditional marriage?

Is your husband’s cock enough to keep you totally satisfied?