MasterwithCane

GREEN is “I’m good with this activity, intensity, speed, etc. In fact, I’m ready to go, go, GO!!!”

YELLOW is “I’m concerned this might be the limit with this particular activity, intensity, speed, etc. In fact, please pay extra attention and take heed that things may need to change if I’m to be able to keep going…”

RED is “STOP THIS THING RIGHT FUCKING NOW AND TALK TO ME!!! I need to reassess if I am able to continue with this activity.”

SAFEWORD (or whatever easy to remember and not used in a scene otherwise word you two agree on) is “WE ARE FUCKING DONE, BEGIN AFTERCARE IMMEDIATELY!!!!”

Whatever else being the Dominant partner may be, psychic ain’t it! Expecting him to just “know” is akin to crossing your fingers and running into traffic without looking expecting to be safe. In other words, it’s just plain foolish as well as dangerous.

There needs to be a way to always communicate these basic states of being no matter what words or gestures you guys choose.

Taken from this post

50% of the community rabidly works to make sure there aren’t kids who are under 18 in here.

While the other 50% of the community knows about this but makes the conscious decision to be vague and leave no indication of their age on their blogs.

Hi. Please help make our community safer. We don’t need to know your exact age. A simple “over 18” would be swell. I don’t reblog content from people who don’t indicate they are an adult. I also do not follow or allow myself to be followed by the same. Transparency rules.