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having come out as ace recently the stuff i saw my past self reblog and say here is so heinous... add that to the internalized bigotry carousel, i guess. idk why i can't just have an identity without being an asshole about it first, but it's something i wanna work on. sorry for my terrible takes.
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âNot a whitâ end me
If my partner turned to me and he said Iâm not sexually attracted to you youâre just good at making me cum Iâd feel so used has the person who made this comic actually had this conversation with a person
this is making me cry
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Please just call me a slur đ
how come people who try to come up with new terms like this never develop them from any of the countless, wonderful languages in the world instead of just shitting them out like a YA sci-fi author
i love how half of these already have gender neutral words
hi iâm here to be annoying and offer alternatives for these
ren and mx. are already widely used & agreed upon so good job op
for âziziâ and âniblingâ just say â[name], who is [familiar bond]â & call them by their name from there. i havenât seen a good gender neutral word for this one yet tbh but these are just so ugly
sib is fine
child
grandren and godren make sense because theyâre just ren with prefixes
partner. datemate or significant other if thatâs more your style
most people say fiancee with two eâs regardless of the gender of their fiancee
just say mx. again, people usually spell the whole word out as mix
monarch
heir, or royal heir more specifically
noble or chief depending on context
deity, divine
enby is used by some but not all nonbinary people, some people find the word infantilizing so they prefer to say nb or person. if youâre specifically referring to a nonbinary child you could also say kid, but enby is fine in that context.
fan, fankid if you absolutely must specify
pro tip: donât fuck around with someone who never asks you a single question about yourself.
pro tip: some people have a developmental disorder and canât tell that youâre trying to engage in small talk with them.
pro tip: some people have npd or delusions of grandeur and think that you genuinely want to know about them.
pro tip: maybe donât make weird assumptions about people based on social norms and instead try to engage in an actual conversation rather than just asking arbitrary questions about shit u donât care about.
no offense but having a mental illness doesnt excuse you from being toxic. i have a mental illness that makes me really needy and paranoid. i would not be offended if people said to stay away from people who need constant validation and reassurance. they probably should. its my responsibility to get help, not their responsibility to put up with my toxic behaviors.
ive also been horribly treated by people with npd, and im not gonna pretend im an ableist asshole for staying away from them. in reality, being severely mentally ill is just unfair like that. if you need help, get it, and dont demand people put up with your shit.
thereâs a difference between being toxic and being bad at small talk, some people just donât know that theyâre supposed to ask questions back. itâs not necessarily problematic or ableist to not want to âput upâ with people like that, but to assume that theyâre bad people because they lack the social skills or self-awareness needed to engage in fruitful small talk is pretty weird. i agree with what youâre saying here but i donât think it applies to the point i was trying to make.
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aro anon - i literally explained . i literally Cannot feel romantic attraction - i've dated a Lot of people and all the relationships failed because i Can't Be Romantically Attracted To People; i've never had a crush and have never been able to see anyone as anything other than a friend. i was using myself as an example - i still want a relationship because i do like the idea of being with someone, but i also know i most likely won't be able to have one. don't try to gotcha someones orientation
@ the other anon
for the record i stand by aro anon on this one because this is peak relatable for my alexithymic ass
aro anon - i literally explained . i literally Cannot feel romantic attraction - i've dated a Lot of people and all the relationships failed because i Can't Be Romantically Attracted To People; i've never had a crush and have never been able to see anyone as anything other than a friend. i was using myself as an example - i still want a relationship because i do like the idea of being with someone, but i also know i most likely won't be able to have one. don't try to gotcha someones orientation
@ the other anon
i mean... no offense but it sounds like you care a Lot what aces do in their free time if you're this opinionated about aces having sex? i agree a culture of pressuring people is bad, but a lot of what you're saying is just. judging ace people for having sex in general when it doesn't really matter what a consenting adult does in their free time. sorry if this sounds rude, but theres a lot of judging ace/aro people intensely for no reason on this site
people were asking my opinion, outside of this i havenât thought about acecourse in probably months, nor do i concern myself with the sex life of aces in my everyday life. also iâm not judging anyone, iâm just formulating my opinion about the concept of ace people having sex. if aces wanna have sex thatâs cool and it doesnât make them a âfake aceâ or anything, iâm not ace so i donât have room to judge.Â
aro anon if you want a romantic relationship... you arenât aro. like gay men donât crave romantic relationships with women. you guys sound in denial and unhealthy
publishing this for aro anon to see i guess???Â
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(same anon) i'm aro/allo so i can't speak personally for ace people, but from what i've heard them say sexual attraction =/= sex Drive- they don't like anyone but might still feel sexual feelings (though ik some ace people don't feel any, it can vary), and some ace people aren't Uncomfortable with sex and are fine with doing it with their partner, whereas others aren't comfortable. i don't really want to like. give a bunch of Detail about why aces have sex bc i'm not ace and also we're both (1)
i see your point but like the other anon said, sexual attraction is a defining factor for oneâs sexuality and generally if allos arenât sexually attracted to someone they wouldnât have sex with them either, so why should aces? and if the only thing theyâre feeling is a sex drive, they can sort that out themselves rather than going through the effort of having sex with someone, right? i get the bit about wanting intimacy but there are other ways to give and receive intimacy that arenât explicitly sexual (or even sexual at all, intimacy can mean whatever you want it to mean).Â
overall i donât really care about what ace people do in their free time, but i do worry about the culture on ace tumblr where itâs encouraged to have sex for your partner because they want it and not because you have a need or want for it. iâm afraid that when people do that it becomes less âiâm doing this on my own termsâ and more âiâll put up with this because you asked me toâ over the course of their relationship. you should never have to put up with sex.Â
asexuality should mean you donât want sex. gay men donât want to have sex with women. straight women donât wanna have sex with women. why would asexuality mean lacking sexual attraction could mean still wanting sex if every actual orientation means lacking sexual attraction means you donât want sex. no one would hear a straight dude go âi wanna bang so many guysâ and say heâs still straight
yeah exactly. like you can bang guys as a straight dude & still be straight if youâre just like, experimenting or whatever, but if someone has established his identity as a straight man and after doing so still desires and pursues sex with men then that is not a straight man. i donât understand why asexuality is deemed an exception in this aspect
you say you're anti aphobia yet you keep reblogging stuff about ace meaning not wanting sex/aro meaning not wanting to date which it... isn't? it's an orientation where you don't experience attraction.
i guess iâm just confused as to why you would want to have sex if you donât experience sexual attraction. like, if itâs all the same to you, why not just masturbate? i donât want people to do things theyâre not comfortable with and i think the culture of âyou should have sex with your allo partner because they said soâ on ace tumblr is really really toxic. iâm still figuring out if iâm ace myself so maybe iâm just projecting my own doubts onto other people and if thatâs the case just tell me, but until then can i please just get a clear explanation as to why you would conceivably want to have sex if your whole orientation revolves around not feeling one of the key aspects of sex?
also tbf anon iâve been reconsidering my stances on acecourse lately and this blog is just where i offhandedly reblog all the exclu posts that pop up on my dashboard. looking through it now some of the recent stuff iâve reblogged doesnât really represent my point of view.
you say you're anti aphobia yet you keep reblogging stuff about ace meaning not wanting sex/aro meaning not wanting to date which it... isn't? it's an orientation where you don't experience attraction.
i guess iâm just confused as to why you would want to have sex if you donât experience sexual attraction. like, if itâs all the same to you, why not just masturbate? i donât want people to do things theyâre not comfortable with and i think the culture of âyou should have sex with your allo partner because they said soâ on ace tumblr is really really toxic. iâm still figuring out if iâm ace myself so maybe iâm just projecting my own doubts onto other people and if thatâs the case just tell me, but until then can i please just get a clear explanation as to why you would conceivably want to have sex if your whole orientation revolves around not feeling one of the key aspects of sex?
why does every fake system have at least one Fancy Headmate that talks like they have five sticks up their ass... u do know no one actually talks like that right
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how did these bitches go from âcishets are our oppressorsâ to âcishets are our oppressors only if they fuck AND dateâ? how? how are you this stupid and easily impressionable? good god get well yesterday.
imagine if transmeds also targeted trans women. imagine if they made trans girl editions of those gross caricatures comparing ârealâ trans guys to âfakeâ ones. imagine if they said that butch trans wlw were straight men fetishising lesbians like they do about gnc trans mlm the other way around. imagine if they harassed trans women for not shaving their entire bodies or not wearing a bra or having short hair. imagine how quickly theyâd be called out for it. imagine how blatant their transphobia would be. targeting your transphobia at men instead of women doesnât make it any more okay.Â
