Marzipan

This goes for the western industry as well, it’s not a cute term to describe how you like to wander or your boho style, it’s a slur. Let’s be mindful of the impact our words have, and make sure we’re not harming others while trying to describe our fashion choices.

If you are a mentally ill person who struggles with violent urges, impulse control, disassociation, anger control, psychosis, or other stigmatized and demonized conditions you are so fucking important and you matter and your needs matter and you deserve better

i hope you all realize that literally nobody is going around forcefemming cis men in real life, right? like that is Not A Thing that is happening. everyone who posts forcefem jokes on tumblr is well aware that doing that would be. you know. a crime. it's barely even legal to consentfem trans women in a lot of places.

you also have to realize that to a lot of trans girl eggs out there, finding out that the forcefemmer isn't real hurts as much as learning the truth about Santa.

What about Santa.

Santa... posted some problematic tweets in 2017 that really highlighted that his "naughty or nice" framework has some serious anglocentric biases.

'Cause people tend to not get the memo: People acting strangely in public is not a danger to you. Pacing, talking to themselves or something you can't see, laughing to themselves, stimming, twitching, ticcing, making "weird" noises--it doesn't fucking matter. They're not your personal freak show, they're not broken, they're not a murderer and they're definitely not going to be fucking helped by you calling the authorities or anyone else on em. These actions alone are not indicative of danger to you, as a random person on the street. Shut the fuck up and move on, leave disabled people alone.

there was never any kind of "agree to disagree" in therapy. if we disagree, i am wrong because of my stupid bitch brain disease, period. and i MUST be violently "challenged" for my mental health recovery. *does the worm while shrieking*

Kink isn’t shameful because of the weird sex stuff. That part’s rad. It’s shameful because it is technically improv.