MapaRhythmCaregiving

💕 You are doing so, so well, even if it doesn’t feel like it. I see you trying, and I’m proud of you.

💕 You are worthy of love, comfort, and gentle care, no matter what your brain tries to tell you.

💕 You’re allowed to need reassurance.

💕 You are loved in all your forms, big, small, silly, sleepy. Every version of you deserves kindness.

💕 You don’t have to change who you are to be worthy of love. The right people will understand.

💕 You’re not a burden. Your needs aren’t “too much.” They’re human, and they’re valid.

💕 You’re not “weird” for how you feel comfort. You’re not wrong for what soothes you. You’re beautifully unique.

💕 You don’t have to toughen up to be worthy of respect. Softness is strength, too.

💕 You are allowed to exist as you are... no

pretending, no hiding. you are safe here.

Decided to put my own spin on the agere flag!! It's quite messy if you zoom in, but I think I did okay <3 the definition stays the exact same, I just really adore how gorgeous xenogender flags are, so I thought I'd make the agere flag a bit more detailed (◍•ᴗ•◍)

Free to use!! Credit is appreciated, but not necessary <3 (and if anyone wants to clean it up for me, I wouldn't mind that either lol.. /not forcing)

I might make more flags (caregiver, pet regressor, age/pet dreamer, etc..), though it isn't guaranteed.. Keep a look out, though!! All of my flags and art and such are tagged with #☆ - 🦄 Creations

⋆｡°✩.Our caregivers are people who sometimes have bad days and need care too! So heres some ways to show you care for them too! there’s can also be used for friends and partners!‧₊˚❀༉‧₊

❀ Ask if theyre okay to care for you!! Everyone goes through stuff, its good to be sure theyre good before asking them to care for you! ♡ Simply just ask them about their day! Sometimes just talking can make someone's day better! ❀ Give them reassurance!!! Everyone likes being told theyre doing a goood job! Im my bubby’s first regressor soo i try to tell him the things he does that i really like. ♡ If you have rules, try to follow them to the best of your ability that way you show to ur cg you respect them! ❀ Make sure they eat and drink water too! They can get busy and sometimes forget.. I try to ask bf whenever he asks about me ♡ Give them huggies!! if ur online give them virtual huggiess!!! ❀ Offer to help with small task! Help clean up after a meal or after playtime. ♡ Help plan activities to do together like a movie night ❀ Ask about there hobbies and interests, this can remind them that you see/care for them as a whole person

I've made a similar post to this on an account that's no longer active, but:

Please be careful when searching for a caregiver/handler, especially when you're a minor. As great as the internet can be, there are also a lot of weirdos who infiltrate these communities to target vulnerable critters.

I advise minors (or really anyone) to not make applications, and only take the help of a trusted friend. Being a caregiver requires immense amount of vulnerability, energy, and trust on BOTH sides. It is not for someone who barely knows you.

This isn't to shame anyone, or make anyone feel bad about wanting to be taken care of. It's just to remind you that it should be taken seriously, and approached safely.

Much barks to you all. Make sure to hydrate, eat, and take medication if you haven't!

- Your big kangal bro

Get sad being called "silly" even when joking

Misunderstand sentences and cry

Misunderstand sentences and get mad

Littles that get quiet when they aren't getting looked at

Littles with mood swings

Littles that get too upset when something bad happens while playing pretend

Hyperempathetic Littles

Littles that can't stand clapping or sudden movements

Littles crying over stuff that never happened irl

Littles that are scared of affection bc they think it might be meant sexual

you are never too old to regress, everyone should feel safe doing so.

you are never too old to feel small, its such a big world, sometimes you just need to be.

you are never too old to play with your toys, they still love you.

you are never too old too buy new toys, they want to meet you.

you'll always be tiny to me. <3

you don’t have to work like others, study like others, or change just to please them.

you are not broken. you are simply you.

if small things exhaust you — like getting out of bed, brushing your hair, or cleaning a little space — that’s okay. your body and your brain are doing their best.

you don’t need to be “productive” to deserve love.

you don’t have to push yourself until it hurts.

rest is not laziness. rest is survival.

do what makes you feel calm.

move at your own rhythm.

be gentle with yourself.

being autistic or disabled isn’t something to fix — it’s something to understand and cherish.

you are enough, just the way you are.

littles, repeat after me pls <3

deep breath

i am allowed to be little!

i am safe!

i am loved!

i am wanted!

deep breath

just a little closer..

there you go, do you want to know the secret?

well, the secret is,

you are loved, you are beautiful/handsome, you are sweet, you deserve love and care, you're not too much, you are enough, and most of all,

you're perfect, and the cutest little thing around

you think you can remember that for me?

good :) remember it, because it's true, kiddo

🌼I love you regressors who are fat

🐸 I love you tall regressors

🌸I love you regressors that are POC

🍄I love you masculine regressors

🌼I love you trans regressors

🪲I love you regressors with scars and stretch marks

🌸I love you regressors who aren’t “conventionally attractive”

🍓I love you regressors who don’t fit the mold of what social media says a regressor should be

🌼 I love you older regressors

- when i regress voluntarily on my own, i use these methods to help get teeny tiny ! no carer needed !! -

these may be able to help with regression block for some babies :з