Mans Trans

I'm an adult transman, autistic, disabled, white, he/him

(transman one word for my personal identity, you can't erase one to emphasize the other. they are both just as important to me)

feel free to reblog any of my posts, I'll turn off reblogging otherwise

it's difficult for me to trigger tag things (executive function issue 😔) so blacklisting words that appear in posts rather than tags is recommended if you need words tagged. exception is my art since it can be eyestrain, you can blacklist #my silly art

here are some things I believe in so just block me and move on if you want to avoid this stuff, please

- transandrophobia/transmisandry is real and seperate from transmisogyny, it also doesn't imply that transmascs are oppressed by transfems

- he/him lesbians, she/her gays, bi/pan/ect lesbians and gays are all valid and it's nobodies business why someone identifies the way they do

- you don't need dysphoria to be trans. there is no requirement to being trans except identifying in good faith

- you don't need trauma to be a system, someone else's trauma is literally none of my business anyways

- transmisogyny is not the only thing that makes a terf a terf. radical feminism is bad in all forms and isn't only about hating transfems. radical feminists are still transmisogynistic (and I consider them inherently so), but it's not the only bigotry they hold

- just generally against exclusionism, including ace exclusionism and anti-mogai stuff

- pro kink also ^_^

I'll add more if I think of anything too

if you're gonna screenshot this and post it publically and/or send me hate you should also give me a kissy on the forehead

people who read my posts in bad faith get blocked

it also waters down our terms to internet discourse and makes it harder to talk about bigger, life-threatening issues. if someone is curious about what issues we face and when they try to look into it all they see is people complaining about trans women & fems it's kind of understandable to see all of us as reactionaries tbh

"you would have to already be shitty to be indoctrinated therefore you are defending the shitty ideology. this is what you meant don't pretend I'm misunderstanding when I'm not"

i dont want to be a parent, but i think i could be pregnant, if that makes sense. what about carrying a child isn't masculine? the traits we ascribe to traditional masculinity, even in the most limited way, all apply to pregnancy. it is a long-term test of endurence. you have to physically carry something heavy. you're providing for and sheltering and protecting something. its really not that hard to see it as an inherently masculine process.

and then you realize that masculinity and feminity dont really have hard borders and you start to get scared lol