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There are several schools of thoughts. One says that compromise is the key to existence and maintenance of marriage. Alison Armstrong author of ‘Queen’s Code, a well-received tome has asked her readers to not place the entire marriage outlook on men and to start looking inwards and being more empowered and self-driven as women.

Typically, a happy marriage has to work between equals and has to be made easy and accessible especially to achieve and communicate as a team. Happy married life is a target to be chased together.

Several marriage problems are enveloped by societal rules. Lack of education or financial backup or unforgiving situations force people to compromise unwillingly. There are several factors that take effect culturally too when the women are taught to accept their second rung existence in the society. They are also told to accept this as the fate or destiny when they know that they can change given some opportunity and support.

The meeting in the middle is the ideal option to make people live happy marriages. To take stock of what people want from each other and the families that they have brought together.

There are goals and expectations and the job of every marriage has to be to be true to the fact that the people involved in this union are at par and both have unique skills they bring to the table. There has to be no resentment and there is no loss of face if one person earns more or one person is more on the IQ weighing scale as compared to the other. This relation is about sharing and not about being on a competition. Some situations can tilt the scale in favour of the other person but end of the day the balance has to be brought back to work in favour of togetherness.

Decide what is important in a marriage. Is it to prevent issues or to look for marriage problem solution and sometimes wasted efforts? There will be gives and takes. There is no one lesser or greater than the other. All are taught to be independent from a young age, but when we walk into a social union of marriage, we are looking at ourselves and also the needs and wants and feelings of the partner. Leon F. Seltzer, Ph.D, says that one has to be skilled in the art of compromise. This has to be a seldom used skill not the go to solution for happy marriage.

Compromise is essential but can be avoided as a daily need to stay in the relation. Communicate why you need to be in the relation before you get into it. That way you are setting the idea of what the opposite person is getting into. Weigh your options with this partner.

Do not talk down but talk for yourself so that you do not have to fight for yourself. Also do not be a ready game for taking on the partners mistakes. Leave the assumptions away from the threshold where you want to sit and talk. Be expressive, this goes for both the people involved.

Sometimes, interaction between just the partners will not be enough to resolve hurdles and marriage problem solutions can be found in the form of ‘Secret of Life’ philosophy by humanitarian ManavGuru Shri Chandrasekhar Guruji.

Even if the need is not major, talk about it. Partners need to and make the details threadbare. Do not keep major things as secrets. They will find you for sure at a later date and an inconvenient setting.

Explanation for everything has to be kept away when not needed from logical discussions. If once you make that as important part of your conservation strategy for the relation it will cost you lost of wasted emotions as married life moves ahead.

Make decision making as a pair the most fun thing of the day. Make it a daily routine too and always look at it from the other person’s perspective too. Give each other an upper hand once in a while so that you feel equal and you have more emotional strength and energy as you go on.