Everything is in your head, darling

repeat after me: you cannot rely on another person for your mental and emotional health. 

I am constantly torn between wanting to improve myself and wanting to destroy myself.

Before you say yes, get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting, see him sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if he does, get him drunk - you’ll learn more about his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts you in front of them. You can’t change people, baby girl. If they are made one way, it doesn’t just wear off. If you hate how he acts when he’s out of it now, you’re going to hate it much worse eight years down the road. You might love him to bits but it doesn’t change that some people just don’t fit.

Of all the female sins, hunger is the least forgivable; hunger for anything, for food, sex, power, education, even love.

A strong relationship requires choosing to love each other even in those moments when you struggle to like each other.

- Stvar je samo u tome što si nerealan. Misliš da možeš da prođeš kroz ovo tako da niko ne vidi ožiljke, pa ni ti sam. Hoćeš da u isto vreme budeš neranjiv i da ljudi uvaže rane. - Nemam ja više pojma šta hoću. Osim da me svi ostave na miru.

You need someone who goes out of their way to make it obvious that they want you in their life.