Those days end

Some of us will never have a thigh gap or a very large one because of our bone structure

Some of us will never have a snatched waist because of our body shape.

Your body shape wont change when you lose weight it will only become a smaller version of it

Some of us will never have the hollow cheeks, an obvious jaw line, slim face, high cheek bones, etc because of our face shape

Some of us will never have the bony hands that so many desire because we werent made to have them

Some of us will never have the obvious ribs or small ones because they come in different sizes

Some of us will never have what someone else has!!

No matter how much weight you lose it all comes down to the blue print of your body.

No one is made the same, some of us are similar but never the same. Do not compare yourself to someone who is nothing like you. You will never be them and they will never be you. Focus on the best possible version of you that you can be. You know your body best, you know what you can and cant have you just dont want to admit it. Accept yourself and improve yourself with what you do have:)

You wanna know what i have?

I have boney hands but not a snatched waist

I have a thigh gap but not a slim face

That is normal and fankly every single person in life wishes they were someone else.

and like honestly? i have anorexia but this is why i constantly talk about the dangers of the “health and fitness” industry and diet culture bc we have essentially normalized certain symptoms of disordered eating but it’s ok if it’s under the guise of health i guess???

like how is calling it “clean” eating NOT a way to moralize food

how is intermittent fasting NOT the same thing as skipping meals

how come when i buy clothes that don’t fit, it’s something i have to tell my therapist about because it means i am putting pressure on myself to fit into them, but if a “normal” person does it then it’s just motivation for them?

where is the fucking line???

and more importantly when are we going to start acknowledging that the entire world is pro-ana but that’s too harsh of a description so we slap some health buzzwords on it to make it palatable

when are we going to take responsibility for encouraging disordered behavior instead of labeling those of us with EDs as the crazy/imbalanced ones