kaya pag may victims, “ano bang suot niya?” “bat kasi nag-post siya ng ganyang picture?” “bat pa kasi siya nagpa-picture?” instead of asking, “bat may mga taong gumagawa non?” the focus is always on the victim instead of the person who actually crossed the line.

when will people realize that we don't dress up or make ourselves look sexy for u to sexualize or disrespect us? the way we dress, the photos we post or the confidence we have in ourselves is not an invitation for harassment, objectification or exploitation. it is never consent!!

& y is the blame still always placed on women instead of holding the people who committed the wrongdoing accountable? bakit laging advice “mag-ingat ka” “wag kang mag-post” instead of teaching people not to harass, not to steal someone’s photos & not to sexualize people without their consent.