love softly

8/10 but fuck, OW.

8/10 also!

don’t ever kill your self because maybe someday you will get brunch with your tumblr mutual

Hey so when you're faced with someone saying the current heat's doing a number on them because it's so out of the ordinary for their climate and your first instinct is to ridicule them and say shit like "well over heeeere that barely qualifies as lukewarm", you are, in fact, an asshole.

I am growing and maturing and so is my body. My hips and rib cage width at 28 are not the same as they were at 18 and that is ok and normal and GOOD, actually. I am an adult woman. Not a teen.

it's wild how lack of willingness to show large amounts of your naked body in public is conflated with a discomfort or insecurity about said body. like obviously if people are motivated by those things that's also fine but it's like. "if you like your body you should want to wear as small a swimsuit as possible; the only reason to get """modest""" swimwear is if you're insecure or have religious motivations" so it's weird feeling like nah my body is awesome I just don't want every rando at the municipal pool to have visual access to it? lol. how I feel about my body is unrelated to whether strangers have a right to view it

combining light and dark soy sauce to make morally ambiguous and nuanced soy sauce