love softly

blogging is too dignified a term for what i’m doing on here

they dont tell you this but you carry your upset younger self in you like a parasitic twin

ngl i kinda resent the fandoms reaction to shane’s “is it upsetting” question bc i ask that 😭 like idk your relationship w your family! idk how you feel! i’m asking! my therapist just told me she went to a giant family reunion and i literally said “oh that’s so nice! i think. you like them right? if not, i’m sorry” like god forbid an autistic dude need clarification

The popularity of the "incompetent stupid piece of shit husband and competent wife who loves him anyways" trope in media is a psyop to make women believe its normal to settle for an incompetent stupid piece of shit husband

my condolences to everyone who had any type of close relationship abruptly end with "the list"

*person in their 20s who was a teenager in the 2010s voice* there's no way this decade is moving at the exact same pace as the last one

sometimes i will be enjoying the most lovely sexy song by a female artist & then realise it's written for a man who's barely a creature

at one point ilya is like ugh i hate that i still have an accent its so stupid ive lived here longer than i did in russia now and shanes like ??? thats like at least 43% of your hotness???! and it leads to cute banter but from then on out shane has this constant fear in the back of his head that he wakes up one day to ilya sounding like HEY HELLO HOW ARE YOU *over the top american accent* and its- hed still love him but...