Hey man, as an asexual gainer, I have a question…
What does being big and having a belly feel like for you? Does it give you any type of gratification?
For me, there was a long time that I felt asexual, but I was also only and VERY attracted to men with big bellies. Almost “bellysexual” in a sense, lol. I realize now I’m gay, but quite literally only for men with big guts. I look at bellies almost like a straight guy would look at boobs, lol… they just drive me nuts.
Just wanted to ask. Does it give you any gratification that could maybe be considered “sexual” from being big and having a nice belly? Do you get gratification from other men with bellies? Just curious.
Honestly, I feel the same way. Being ace, I get nothing from anything below the belt or what would be considered sexual. Bellysexual is a good way to put it, but that doesnt mean Im not attracted to smaller or fit guys.
For me, I started gaining bc I found myself being attracted to big guys. The same story everyone has, finding a site like this or on YouTube watching gainers when youre way too young. And I was finally in a place where I was willing to do it myself. Id say I get that "sexual" gratification from this for sure.
But theres also the part of me that also just likes this body ive built, it feels more comfortable, more like me. Do I get horny or turned on by this? Yeah of course, but I also get the enjoyment of being happy in my own skin. Which isnt something I was used to a few years ago. So I guess I get two kinds of gratification.
As for the sexuality part, I consider myself somehwere on the spectrum between asexual and demisexual, but very much into the romantic part. I would love for a guy (honestly i consider myself bi but lean to guys) to spend time with, but they of course have to like me and my body how it is or if I get a little bigger (not looking to gain indefinitely amd end up dependent on someone). And if they wanna squeeze my belly while we cuddle/kiss, or feed me till I cant sit up and take a nap on my chest, even better.
This was a really thoughtful question that got me thinking a lot about what I want, but its also late and im not sure if I answered it well. Please feel free to ask any follow ups like this or in my dms, im sure there are others who feel similarly or are trying to figure it out .
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