breathe

love when pets walk by like they have somewhere to be

Repeat after me: I am allowing myself to live joyfully in spite of the unresolved emotions and problems that I cannot change.

in a relationship i think my biggest flaw is that im extremely needy & sensitive, i constantly need to feel the love or ill assume its gone

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Dear Ijeawele, or A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen

you so fucking precious when u paypal me $1,000,000

in therapy my therapist and i were talking about my own feelings of self worth in relationships. and she asked me to say qualities about myself that someone else would be attracted to, on a romantic and platonic level. so i named some things like compassionate, empathetic, etc. and she said “you named things that you can give someone. ways you can serve, rather than ways that you are” and y'all..my mind was blown that’s gonna stick with me forever like she then proceed to tell me actual innate qualities about myself that she liked and thought anyone else would like as well and i hadn’t even considered those because like she said i was focused on things i could do outwardly to attract and maintain connections rather than who i was as a person..goddamn!!! thats tea!!!