Just a blog of Krismas tree

And nonbinary people, right?

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it pisses me the fuck off so bad. its so exorsexist. everything in the deltarune fandom involving kris' gender or asab or what fucking ever.

Kris uses exclusively they/them. Everyone calls them by those pronouns. Nothing in the game has any indication as to what sex they were assigned at birth.

And yet people try to assign a sex at birth to them. Basically saying "are they a boy nonbinary or girl nonbinary"

And a whole aspect of the game is how Kris wants control of their life back. Because you aren't seeing the world from their eyes. You control them and they fucking know it. They've ripped their soul out trying to take back control

Then people on the internet act like Kris is the player and how Kris' gender relies on the player! Or they try to be the authority on their gender and/or their asab.

It doesn't matter. Not only that but you're trying to take control over how people perceive Kris, which should entirely be up to them. Because people perceive transmasc/fem nonbinary people differently than transneutral ones

i dont give a fuck if you think it's okay because 'theyre just pixels' and youre supposedly not hurting anyone's feelings. maybe the character cant be hurt by you misgendering them or saying their gender is 'up to interpretation', but real nonbinary people can see your words. and everytime they see someone put down their own rep, they get just a little more disheartened.

"but it's just fiction! just because i misgender nonbinary characters doesn't mean i don't support real nonbinary people!" yea, i dont believe that. if you truly supported nonbinary people, then you would support normalising transgender identities in media instead of implying that referring to nonbinary characters correctly is 'too difficult'.

and yes, gendering fictional nonbinary people correctly is just as important as doing the same for real ones. media, fictional or otherwise, does have a real impact on how the general public perceives minorities (you'd know that if you actually paid attention in history class). so what that means is that normalising nonbinary people in media would subsequently normalise nonbinary people's presence in real life society. which loops back to the original point of this post:

it is important to gender nonbinary characters correctly. it does, in fact, genuinely affect us. everytime you say a nonbinary character's gender is 'up to interpretation', you slowly influence one more misguided kid into becoming more exorsexist. everytime you call real allies theyre snowflakes for caring about this issue, you dishearten one more nonbinary person.

is it a "womans space" or is it a domestic violence shelter?

is it a "womans space" or is it a queer pride event?