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Your partner becomes your environment. Their habits, their emotional regulation & their mindset all leave an imprint on you. If you want a life of peace, growth, and purpose, you need to choose someone who will co create that environment with you not someone who drains you or keeps you in a cycle of chaos and recovery

Love by itself is not enough. Chemistry is exciting, but it’s compatibility, respect and shared vision that sustain a relationship in the long run. Look for alignment in values and goals, choose character over charm and prioritize someone who is committed to their growth. The right partner should inspire you to rise higher, not keep you stagnant

Pay attention to red flags. They are not challenges to overcome, they are stop signs. Your body often senses the truth before your mind catches up and ignoring those signals can cost you years of your life, along with your confidence and peace of mind

The best way to choose wisely is to build a life you love first. When you feel fulfilled and secure on your own, you choose a partner from a place of clarity rather than desperation. This is what helps you avoid settling and ensures that your relationship adds to your life rather than becoming the center of it

Smartphones and other modern day smart devices have now become the new drugs for this generation.  Billions of people worldwide have become techno-junkies/prisoners that are over-whelmed, rewired and addicted to the constant stimuli (a predictable dopamine driven, social validation feedback loop) of this social-matrix. We are outsourcing our brains to these smart devices, that in turn are doing the thinking for us (weak AI).   How long can we last doing a simple task without obsessively checking our smartphones or PCs (internet, social media feed, web browsers, etc) before feeling lost, anxious, fidgety, moody or bored? We all have the freedom to either live as mental slaves that are trained to be unconscious, distracted and reactive to artificially induced realities that remove us out of the Present Moment or reclaim our true sovereignty as conscious observers/creators.  

~Anon I mus (Spiritually Anonymous)