Lucky Star System

Hell in a lot of circumstances, telling someone who's doing something you don't like to get evaluated for something is being ableist.

There is genuine concern, and then there is everything else. This is part of the everything else.

Gatekeeper: Dissociate

Protector: Murder

Little: Cry

1. Reffering to an alter as a “part” is not dehumanising or denying an alters full self, it’s like saying someone is “part” of a group or family.

Just like any other mental illness, you're allowed to hate having it. If you don't want to view it as a blessing or a beautiful survival mechanism, you don't have to.

You can have mixed feelings. You can feel grateful that it helped you survive and still hate that you're living with it now. You can hate how it makes you feel and what it's done to your life.

You can feel gratitude and love towards your parts/alters and still hate the struggles. You are allowed to have whatever feelings you have about it.