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ᜊ𐔌๑ ‘ ˔ ‘ ꒱੭ softiequeer is using softie in a

reclamation way as many who have

transharmfuls/hatefuls on their dni are often

called “softies” for not desiring interaction

from those beings due to comfort/boundaries.

softiequeer is strictly a sfw blankqueer.

𓄲 softiequeer is pro ᵎᵎ

all transids, including transharmfuls/hatefuls even though they do not desire to interact with them for whatever reason.

all paras, and treating those who are paraphiles with respect and dignity.

all queer identities including mspec monos, contradictory gendered individuals, and lgbtq+ people from any walk of life.

any and all systems of any origin.

freedom of fiction and enjoying whatever fictional content you want.

consent, rack, respecting boundaries, the block button, and curating your own space.

𓄲 softiequeer is neu ᵎᵎ

any and all contact stances, anyone of any contact stance can be softiequeer.

any blankqueer that is explicitly for or targeted towards transharmfuls/hatefuls.

𓄲 softiequeer is anti ᵎᵎ

all forms of noncon harm, bullying, harassment, csem/csam, and abuse.

all forms of homophobia, transphobia, racism, bigotry, hatred of religion, para misa, and hate groups.

purposeful dni breaking.

꒰ . 🎐 。why coin? ◟ `` ˖

I decided to coin softiequeer since there doesn’t seem to be a space in the radqueer community for those who aren’t transharmful/hateful. I coined this for me, and for any other radqueer who doesn’t want to interact with that part of the community or those terms for whatever reason. It is not out of hatred or discomfort for those beings who ID as those things, but for what those ID’s are based off of.

I am personally uncomfortable with the sheer amount of transharmful/hateful content that I see, so I wanted to make softiequeer to have a place free of that content. that is not the fault of others, it is my boundary and my preference.

I will only be using the softiequeer tag after making this post. you are not obligated to use this, if you are hurt or offended by this coining it is not my problem. I am making a term for those who feel similar to me, and want a space for themselves. feel free to coin an opposing blankqueer even, that does not bother me!

　　𐙚　⁺ #softiequeer ‿ ˖

𓂃 " ❄️ 𓈒 　。in the softiequeer tag expect to find ; non-transharmful/hateful terms and coinings, radqueers who identify as “softer”, brighter themes, no nsfw/nsft content (including gore/intense descriptions of bodily harm), etc.

𓂃 " ❄️ 𓈒 　。softiequeer takes inspiration from other blankqueers like bambiqueer, flowerqueer, and similar blankqueers.