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Uhhh he knows whatever this is

We’re trying to decide which of these is a better option:

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Valley Down Pour - Jeremy Niranda , 2026.

American , b. 1980 -

- saying no

- saying no when asked to do something you could you could technically do but at a great cost to yourself

- wanting things

- allowing yourself to want things

- doing something that you want because you want it

- getting something that you want because you want it

- asking for the things you want

- eating a food you enjoy

- changing something in your space that will make you happy (get a furniture you like, or a decoration, or put up a cool piece of art, or move something you use often to a more accessible spot)

- changing something about your body that will make you happy (like getting a haircut, hair dye, tattoo, piercing, hrt, nail polish - do not try to force your body into a vastly different shape than what it is. do something within reach)

- wearing something that will make you feel cool, or cute, or pretty, or badass, or comfy. something that will make you happier

- admitting a situation is miserable and that you want it to be different

- wanting to change a situation to be less miserable

- not punishing yourself for wanting to be less miserable

- finding what can possibly be done to make a situation less miserable

- changing something about a situation that makes you miserable

- asking for help

- accepting help

- accepting kind words and compliments

- starting small

- accepting failure and imperfection