Almost Inactive

but I already am outside a lot 🤔

Clearly not enough

Honestly at this point seeing grey/white/purple together activates my fight or flight response

You are honest to god one of the most embarrassing people involved in the discourse you are the exact strawman of the inclusionist

Holy fuck they got me ladies and gents I’m gonna delete now

Imagine feeling so threatened by someone’s sexuality that certain colors freak you out

Imagine having a Dan and Phil blog in 2017

Imagine making fun of someone’s blog type when you have a blog dedicated to discrediting someone’s sexuality

Literally my blog isn’t to “discredit” asexually it’s to keep cishets out of the lgbt community. Asexuality is real it just isn’t inherently LGBT.

yeah well, the purple, white and gray flag that activates your fight or flight response belongs to all asexuals, not just the heteroromantic ones, so if you aren’t trying to “discredit” asexuality (or the types of asexuals who you consider to be LGBT+) maybe walk your initial statement back a few steps

It was a joke homie it was a joke about how the ace flag now automatically means discourse and discourse nowadays is just annoying it was a JOKE

God thank you these exclusies fucks will make fun of every part of ace ppls orientation and then complain that anything related to aceness means discourse now they are so fucking unselfaware it’s amazing

Y’all are really getting mad at a post that I made literal years ago huh? On my blog that isn’t even active anymore? Imagine caring about ace discourse in 2019 lmao couldn’t be me

OP literally wtf

if someone is cis and het they’re fucking cishet. that’s how it works.

tiktok makers on my porch dressed as catgirls: *making ahegao faces and moaning loudly* me: *runs out with a shotgun and shoots up at the air as a warning shot* GIT OUTTA HEARE YA DAMN TIKTOKERS! GIT! tiktok catgirls: *get on all fours and run like deer into the woods*

school groups literally aren’t allowed to exclude anyone who wants to join lol

Watching TERFs in the wild is so fascinating like I can’t decide if they genuinely don’t know what a joke is or if they’re pretending (probably the case)

why is that bad? women can love men too, and men can love women. it’s not evil to be straight or bi or pan, you know.

i think they meant as in using that term

Yes that is exactly what I meant IN 2015 WHEN I MADE THIS POST WHEN I WAS 15. Thank you for having some common sense and actually reading the post.

yeah man, thanks for agreeing with my own personal opinion, you must have common sense for coming to the same conclusion as me :)

Why is this post the one of mine that has wracked up the most people who don’t know how to read

I made an easily misinterpretable post when I was 15 and people misinterpreted it. I was making a point that was relevant in the discourse a while back. People read it outside of the context and came to the conclusion that I, a bisexual, hate bisexual people. Someone finally correctly interpreted it, and I was confirming that they correctly interpreted it. You joined the ranks of people that misinterpreted this post, like three years later. I don’t care if they agree with me or not, I was just glad that someone realized what I was actually saying.

why is that bad? women can love men too, and men can love women. it’s not evil to be straight or bi or pan, you know.

i think they meant as in using that term

Yes that is exactly what I meant IN 2015 WHEN I MADE THIS POST WHEN I WAS 15. Thank you for having some common sense and actually reading the post.

yeah man, thanks for agreeing with my own personal opinion, you must have common sense for coming to the same conclusion as me :)

Why is this post the one of mine that has wracked up the most people who don’t know how to read

why is that bad? women can love men too, and men can love women. it’s not evil to be straight or bi or pan, you know.

i think they meant as in using that term

Yes that is exactly what I meant IN 2015 WHEN I MADE THIS POST WHEN I WAS 15. Thank you for having some common sense and actually reading the post.

why is that bad? women can love men too, and men can love women. it’s not evil to be straight or bi or pan, you know.

Okay. I made this post in 2015. Three fuckin years ago. I was 15 years old. And maybe I didn’t say it as gracefully as I could have, but what the post is saying is that straight people shouldn’t co-opt LGBT terms. That’s it. And, get this, I’m literally bisexual. I’m a bisexual man dating a girl. I know it’s okay for men and women to date.

Hey gay men I have a question what do you generally look at to figure out if a girl is a lesbian (if you ever even try to figure it out at all) because I feel like every time I try to bond with an Out Gay Man he assumes I’m a Straight Girl who wants a Gay Best Friend and I cant just be like “I’m a lesbian” like how do yall know when a girl is gay I need more gay/lesbian solidarity in my life and I dont know any fucking lesbians but I know quite a few gay men and I wanna be friends and bond over our lack of heterosexuality

usually hair!! rad haircuts or dyed hair!! and anything rainbow/explicitly wlw ofc

Ugh my hair is the most heterosexual looking thing about me

Hair, clothes, the Vibe. Its hard to explain exactly. If all else fails or doesn’t jump out at me, placement of piercings. I don’t know a single straight girl with a septum piercing. If I ever even get a small inkling I casually bring up gayness.

I have thought abt the septum piercing tbh but I already have a nostril and I’m not sure how I feel abt the septum on my face tbh. I do have very asymmetrical piercings tho and I do want more so

Gay people and especially gay AFAB people have a specific brand of humor and way of speaking so I can pretty much figure it out by talking to them? It’s just a vibe I get.

Unpopular opinion but “queer” isn’t an identity in itself if you’re not also a lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans, pansexual, or nonbinary person. Your identity can’t just be “queer”, unless you’re nonbinary and the only way you feel comfortable describing your gender is as genderqueer.

i have no issue with someone personally reclaiming the term but when people act like its flat out wrong to acknowledge that they do, inevitably, fit the definition of gay/bi/trans/pan/nb it makes me feel like the urge to use queer as their core/only identity is due to stigma surrounding the other terms