âByler is in Stranger Things to show unrequited loveâ Yet, it isnât.
Stranger Things has shown unrequited âloveâ before, with Dustinâs crush on Max (who liked Lucas) which i feel like itâs a storyline that most people forget. Which itâs okay, since itâs not that relevant to the story, i just wanted to show how differently Dustin and Maxâs story is to Mike and Willâs.
đ§˘đŠđťâ𦰠How exactly were Dustin & Max written?
For starters, the show doesnât tell us why Max and Dustin would be good together as a couple. They go well as friends, yes, but they do not show a meaningful conversation between them that really shows the romantic chemistry and how much they understand eachother, like the Lumax bus scene.
Dustin only thinks Max is âawesomeâ because she skateboards, and has the top score in Dig Dug, because he doesnât know her.
They highlight that Dustin is not in love with Max, hence the Steve scene, where Steve goes âYouâre not falling in love with this girl are you?â which to Dustin honestly says no, because heâs not in love, itâs a just crush. Also an important note when writing something unrequited with 15 year olds.
Then, Dustin speaks to Lucas and says âhe could feel the electricityâ between him and Max, which is him ultimately accepting that Max does not like him back, and instead likes Lucas.
Is he upset about it? Yes, he is, however, itâs not mentioned again in the show after season 2 because heâs over it. In just a few months, heâs got a new girlfriend, and he doesnât like Max anymore. He got over it quick, because it was just a crush, and he didnât know her that well.
In seasons 3&4, Dustin is able to act completely act normal around Max, because he doesnât like her anymore.
Now, while Lucas also liked Max at first, not as much as Dustin, and as he talks with her more and knows her better (hence, them having more scenes) you see Lumax developing.
đđ Where does this put Byler?
Byler is written very differently. First, by season 4, Mike and Will have known eachother and been bestfriends for 10 years. (Since kindergarten), so right off the bat, they KNOW eachother. Dustin didnât know Max.
Stranger Things has so many scenes of Mike and Will to show us just how special this thing between them is. They have a lot of scenes filled with chemistry, showing how much they understand eachother and how theyâd do anything for eachother. (Said by Mike, heâd do anything for Will.)
So, they show us why Mike and Will would be a good couple. Something they didnât with Max and Dustin.
Noah Schnapp then went on to say âYou could never really tell if [Byler] was something romantic or just a really special friendship.â
Next, they show us just how much Willâs in love with Mike. (Also confirmed by Noah Schnapp) So, not a crush like Dustin. Heâs in love with Mike. The painting and the van scene proves it. It shows us Willâs feelings for Mike, and how actually deep they are.
Will doesnât say âMikeâs cool because he skateboardsâ like Dustin says about Max, he says âYouâre the heart, and without you weâd (I) all fall apart.â and âYou make her (me) feel like sheâs (iâm) not a mistake at all. Like sheâs (iâm) better for being different.â Basically, that heâs better for loving Mike. Mike makes Will feel like heâs not a mistake.
So, itâs very obviously NOT a shallow crush, and not something Will can move on from in a few months like Dustin. Willâs happy ending is not moving on from Mike, itâs getting together with Mike. If he moves on in like, a year with someone else completely whom he shares no understanding with, itâs completely bad writing, and i stand on it.