βBelieve me, what you want is someone to have dinner with. Sleep with from time to time, telephone every day or write. Itβs what you set up that is defeating. Make it very modest. And give yourself permission to make a few mistakes. You know, blow it a bit. Have a few drinks and fall into bed with somebody. It doesnβt have to be the final thing.β
β Leonard Cohen on relationships, 2007



















