in august i will be 10 months off testosterone!!! my appearance has been feminizing and i present as female in public as much as possible, but i’ve been avoiding just going for it and fully detransitioning. everyone i know irl still thinks im a trans man, and i know that needs to change. so im posting these detransition goals, and if i get enough notes to reach them im planning on finally fully detransitioning

• i change my pronouns on all social media to they/them (100 notes)

• i come out to my mom as detrans (200 notes)

• i come out to the rest of my family (300 notes)

• i change my pronouns on social media to she/her (400 notes)

• i make a public post on social media coming out as detrans (500 notes)

• i start presenting female at work (600 notes)

Out of kink post:

Can I start something? I noticed a lot of detransition kink posts use tags like 'ftmtf' or 'detransition' and such. I used to do this myself, until someone (politely) asked me not to this. I realized they were very much right. Lot's of us do this without bad intention and without realizing it can have a very negative impact.

People who genuinely detransition or are ftmtf are probably flooded with kink content they didn't ask for. So maybe it's on us to stop using 'ftmtf', 'detransition' and instead start using 'ftmtf kink', 'detranstion kink' etc.

I also try to add as many trigger warning tags as I can think off. Such as 'tw detransition' 'tw detransition kink' 'tw misgendering kink' etc.

to ftm girls reading this: this can happen to you to if you just let it! <3

What is there to add, really? They should make Hallmark movies about this stuff - wayward girls learning the true meaning of womanhood.

Unless you are actually detransitioning and discussed it with your doctor, don’t mess up your hormones. Sudden low T can cause negative moods, low libido etc. You can totally just play pretend. It’s just kink.

Feel free to share this or create your own version of it, someone out there might need to read this.

If someone is angry about that, they can go and be angry somewhere else. You are enough and don’t need the internet points to be valid.

i've been off T for 255 days, or over 8 months, now! i've not got any changes that stuck around, thank god, so i look completely female, like i was never on T at all.

i haven't worn a binder in just about as long, i don't even know where in my room it is anymore. i've been wearing bras every day and any chest dysphoria i had is totally gone, i've taken to showing them off and showing cleavage and stuff which has been really fun! i also wear skirts or dresses much more often than i don't and wear makeup every day. none of this, surprisingly, has made me dysphoric at all?

i've started a new college course and haven't introduced myself to anyone using he/him so they're all using she/her for me! i've taken the pronouns out of all of my bios and "accidentally lost" my pronoun pin so there's literally nothing to correct them.

literally the only thing between me and being totally detran.sitioned is telling people i know. that probably won't come for a long while yet but otherwise i'm presenting totally female. it's a lot of fun! you should try it if you haven't <3