Always fighting.

A cruelty observably affects both males and females, and OP has the following choices

a) Ignore the observable fact that males are affected

b) Acknowledge the fact that males are affected, but the focus should be on females because

b1) males should be ignored because they are not worth it

b2) focusing female victimhood simply gathers more societal attention

Whereas when the girls were not horrifically murdered but simply taken off, Hollywood actresses and the first lady of the United States whipped out their marker pens and held up signs for the camera (even though it should have been obvious such an act was pointless and would accomplish nothing). 

As eliminativism said previously, it’s not about the “bring back” - it’s about the “girls”.

Did you know that white people are not allowed to wear Harajuku fashion?

Did you know that when Japanese people start wearing lolita fashion (Victorian England and Rococo era France costumes with Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland by the English author Lewis Carroll), kogal and schoolgirl uniforms (European naval uniforms), mori and fairy kei (inspired by European fairy tales especially those by the Brothers Grimm and the general idea is taking inspiration from Snow White or Rapunzel or Red Riding Hood or Hansel and Gretel), Vivienne Westwood (British designer who is extremely popular in Japan), and punk (taken directly from 70s British punk, featuring heavy use of Scottish tartan and the Union Jack flag, to the point that one of the main punk boutiques in Harajuku is called Union Jack) it means Japanese people now own it and you are not allowed to wear it and you can appropriate your own culture if the Japanese like it too? 

*that is unique to them* Is that why so many Japanese girls have left the lolita subculture simply because wearing the wrong crinoline or petticoat or type of lace will result in you getting insults from other lolitas from daring to stray from the strict rules the subculture places on its members, and why nearly all of the dresses in Baby, The Stars Shine Bright are mass produced and available from a catalogue, rather then being made individually and for one of a kind?  

But i take solace in the thought that this guy would be fired if this happened irl. Correct me if I’m wrong on that tho.