maybe two babka?

usually folks have to put a lot of effort into takes this bad but it seems to come pretty naturally for you 🤨 maybe not the best look to call a victim of violent conversion therapy a “pathetic cheating ass” lol just a thought!

Yeah OP, this is honestly so ignorant—because a man who is trapped in a life that is usually homophobic by nature (the stereotype of mobs and bosses is NOT that they’re accepting, right?), and is married to an extreme woman can just come out easy as that, right? He was trying to forget about all of it with Hank. Should he have told him? Yeah. Did he? No. But he’s safe, Hank’s safe. They can build from this.

if saying "cheating is wrong" and "deliberately lying to someone you love is wrong" is ignorant to you, what can I say. that's not on me

nobody’s saying that cheating is good but the situation is so much more nuanced than that and i think you know it. obviously the situation is messy and hank would be right to take some time to build trust back. but it’s not hard to have a little empathy for a gay man choosing between true love and happiness, however fleeting, and a life of torment. the suggestion that cristobal should be loyal to the woman who probably would have killed him for being gay had hank not intervened is incredibly out of pocket. hank learned about his wife and then, in an instant, his kids, and still chose cristobal, and i think that speaks for a lot

usually folks have to put a lot of effort into takes this bad but it seems to come pretty naturally for you 🤨 maybe not the best look to call a victim of violent conversion therapy a “pathetic cheating ass” lol just a thought!