Cute Princess

I wanna make bento lunches for me n my baby

A way my therapist has told me to approach childhood trauma is thinking about the child who went through the traumatising ordeal. You may resent yourself for not fighting back, not doing enough, or not running away, but you need to see the young child who was there, the one who needed protection, not persecution

Wow. Srsly, wow. I never thought of that like that before. Thank you OP.

This is a good point. Often childhood traumas are such a big deal because they force you to be strong in a way you’re not ready to be yet at that age. Acting like you “didn’t do enough” in any way, would be like blaming yourself for losing a footrace against a cheetah. The game was rigged against you from the start; the important thing is YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN PROTECTED and PEOPLE SHOULD NOT HAVE HURT YOU LIKE THAT. None of that is YOUR fault.

THIS is seriously one of the biggest steps anyone could take in recovery. It has helped me heal so much just by teaching myself to adopt this mental attitude!

we as a society should go back to playing neko atsume

You survived the trauma, you will survive the recovery

shes trying to ask you to mushroom prom…

Tell her I said YES!!!!!

I ACCEPT AND WE'RE GONNA WEAR THE PRETTIEST DRESSES

“really?” I say to inanimate objects that are not working like they usually do

“Stay.” I glare at inanimate objects that continuously fall over

“Thank you!” I say exhasperatedly to the inanimate objects when they do finally work right/stay put

“Sorry! I say to the table I bumped into

“SHHH” I say to the inanimate object that keeps making noise

“Yeah, yeah, I’m coming,” I huff at the persistent kitchen timer.

“Don’t take that tone with me!” I exclaim at objects that make strange and sudden unknown noises.

“Stop crying, you’re fine,” I snap as I’m looking for the charger cord for the electronic device beeping demandingly at me.

“Oh nice, real mature,” I snarl at devices that suddenly stop working after I berate them for not working properly.

JESUS CHRIST I HAVE NEVER RELATED SO HARD IN MY LIFE

“Don’t you shout at me” to the till whenever I don’t hit the right button and it beeps shrilly at me.

Report: humans seem to believe that inanimate objects possess a spirit of some sort, and will often address them thinking the item will hear and understand. This makes our previous observations about the joy they experience when blowing things up quite disturbing.

most romantic thing anyone can do is get u one of those giant ass rilakkumas

oh. me. gosh.

ahh i want so many of these !!