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I am still debating whether I should do something that adds sexual stuff to it as I am a safe place for all littles. Maybe you guys can reply to this and tell me if you think that is acceptable.

Welcome to my new CG 101. I am TonberryKitten and while I am not a CG I do research things. I do talk to other people and get what they have to say too. This will be a list of rewards and punishments along with some things that might be rewarded or punished for. These will be nonsexual! If you would like to add to this you can reblog, send an ask, reply, or message me and I can make edits.

Rewards

Honestly, I am a big fan of earning points and chore charts/wheels for prizes or extra privileges. Positive reinforcement and incentives always help me to do better. However you can also reward your little for just being especially good one day…or maybe they did something like getting good grades…the possibilities are endless.

Reasons for rewards:

-Good grades

-Does Chores

-Having a good day

- Accomplished a good deed

- Accomplished a goal or milestone

-Good habits (eating healthy, drinking water, ect)

- Healthy hobbies (Gardening, art, ect but in moderation)

- Limiting unhealthy habits (Obsessive things, too many sweets, ECT)

- Sometimes it is good to just give rewards just cause!

Trackers

Here are various ideas that you can use to keep track of good and bad behaviors. These are really good if you are using a point like awards system.

-Bullet Journals, Diaries, ECT- I personally have a bullet journal that I track my good and bad habits in and also my moods. I also have a points tracker in it so that I can keep track of my rewards

- Chore Charts, Sticker charts, Chore wheels - All good ways of keeping track of what they do. Let your little do the filling in and praise them after they do and they will quickly fall into a good routine.

- Monies! or as big people might call them…fake money, real money, or coupons. You can make your own Little Bucks that they can trade for various reward prizes.

- Fill the Jar - Use Marbles, Beads, candy, fake coins, ect to fill a jar. Kind of like a swear jar only for good things instead of bad. This is good double as a punishment too as you can take things out when they are bad.

Rewards:

Small - small toys, stickers, hugs, kisses, praises, trips to the park or ice cream shop. Something that isn’t going to break your bank and will be a quick reward for your little. Maybe have a few bought already and in a drawer or box and let them pick from it. Maybe even give them a set time that they can pick what you guys do together, pens and paper/notebook, coloring book, markers, crayons, blind bags or boxes

Medium - These will be a little bit more pricey and hard to get. Small stuffies, gift cards, Sets of things (Coloring book and crayons, new movie and popcorn), I am going to add more sweets in here while they won’t cost much you want to make sure they work for them since it not good for them to have too many sweets. Let them pick an activity like going to the movies or restaurant, a new game. Nice priced toys.

Large: Stuffies, new outfits, new play gear (if they are a pet), more expensive priced toys, something they want badly (Like I want a camera) 

Of course, there are still things like extending privileges, adding time to a bedtime. Adding more time on the phone, ect.

Punishments

Bleh! Nobody likes these :( however if you talk about the good you have to talk about the bad. Let’s give some ideas of reasons to punish, punishments, and what to not punish for and what shouldn’t be used as punishment.

Reasons:

I know I know some of these are obvious but I am trying to give ideas here. So here are some common reasons I think Littles are punished for.

- Bratty behavior or bad behavior

-Not listening

-Failing to do a chore several times or not doing it when asked

-Lying or hiding things

-Too much of a bad thing (Sweet sneaking)

-Failing to do self care out of laziness

DO NOT PUNISH FOR:

- Depression, anxiety, self-harm, illness:  if they don’t get a homework assignment or chore done because they were too depressed to get out of bed. Punishing them will only make it worse!

- Not accomplishing something due to conflict with time. If that final paper is half of their grade and they have to stay up and finish it that is fine. Not having time to accomplish a chore due to work or school is also fine but they should provide proof of this. Weigh what is more important.

Punishments:

-Scolding or warnings 

- Taking away a privilage (Phone, internet, ect)

- Taking away reward tracker

- Limiting time with CG (never ever remove time completely this is a really harsh punishment)

- Taking away of toys (Never their saftey item)

- Time out, Corner sitting

-Line writing

- Hand sitting, kneeling on rice, ect (These can be a bit painful)

-Spanking

- Soap, Hot sauce, Yuckies in mouth

For a few more details of a list you can visit my post here: [LINK]

DO NOT USE AS PUNISHMENT:

 - Do not take away a security item (blanket, stuffy, paci, toy)

- Do not threaten to leave

- Do not hit them anywhere but the butt and only open hand on butt

- Do not remove yourself for an extended period of time.

- Insulting or Cussing at a little is no way to get your point across. No mental abuse.

- Cutting or physical abuse in any way

- Doing anything that can cause a phobia. EX: Locking them in a tight space, dunking them under water, ect

ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS remember the importance of aftercare.

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Disclaimer: These may not work for every little. Please get to know your little before trying things listed below.

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•Help with tying their shoes

•Talk to and/or for their stuffies (give their stuffies personalities)

•Participate in any planned tea parties possible

•Encourage their little space (ex. “do you wanna be little for me, baby?” “i would love to hold my little one!”)

•Help pick out their clothes for the day, make sure to include their favorite little space outfits as well

•Find out what nicknames trigger their little space

•Ask them what sound various animals make, praise them when they get it right

•Learn their favorite movies for little space, let them pick from the list

•Always, always, ALWAYS, congratulate their art work

Someday's it's hard to feel small. Or some weeks..and even some months. This is nothing to feel ashamed of, of course. It's normal to have periods where no matter what you do it feel like you can't be small. I hope that this post can help you, even if just a bit.

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🍒Take it slow. Nothing was ever and will ever be solved by panicking, stressing, and rushing yourself when you aren't ready yet. Sometimes a break can be a good thing, so that when you get back into it you feel ready and refreshed.

🍒The next time you have a day off, set aside as much time as you can for: Hanging out with a cg, sibby, little friend, or anyone you trust in your regressed state. Even being alone is fine. What are some things little you loves? Spend the day trying to focus on those things (but don't push it if you can't)

🍒Going to a favorite little spot. Maybe this is the park, buildabear, a toy shop, or a restaurant with really good Mac and cheese. Spend time there and try to let any negative thoughts go. If you don't feel regressed? Try faking it and pretending you do. Sometimes this can trick yourself into eventually feeling smaller for real.

🍒The little things count! (See what I did there? Lol) So don't be afraid to treat yourself with something new, even if it's small. Going to the dollar tree for a new bubble blower, or bath toy. Playing pretend (like you're a princess/prince going to the great stuffie ball, or a tea party or dance party. You're a fish in your bubble bath!) Getting some chalk and drawing your favorite stuffie out on the sidewalk (don't forget to show them your work!) Even if you don't feel like it, that small thing could make a difference.

🍒Making your room feel smaller. Recently I got new bedsheets, they have unicorns and rainbows on them. I feel much smaller in these sheets, and they have so many other kinds. Even just a small blanket, a poster, sticking your finished coloring sheets on the walls, or a corner of the room dedicated to your stuffies and play things.

🍒Don't neglect yourself. Make sure to set up chores and things you need to do for yourself if you don't have a cg to do this for you. A clean room can help to make a cleaner mind, as silly as it may sound. Your room is your safe space, so treat it like one and pick up. Don't forget to clean your teeth, your face and body. And of course, make yourself a nourishing meal you love with lots of water. A reset to your area might be what you need.

🍒Check to make sure you're taking your meds and getting all your vitamins. Did you know vitamin deficiencies can cause you to feel sad and tired all the time? I found out when going to the doctor I was feeling icky and upset because I had a bad vitamin D deficiency. And now I feel better! Consider a multivitamin, (yes you can take the kids ones!) and spending extra time in the sun (with sunscreen, of course!)

🍒Do things you think are fun and exciting! It's tempting to lay around all day and scroll through social media, but this can be bad for you if you overdo it! Take some time away from the tech and think. What is stopping you from doing what you reallllyyy wish you could be doing right now? Chances are, there is at least one thing that interests you that you could be doing. Don't drag yourself away from your interests if you're feeling bad. I've been there, and it doesn't help you feel any better. I know I said not to force things earlier, but a tiny tiny push into something you like is different.

playing with my little brother

using crayons n colouring

wearing pj onsies

grabbing a stuffie after a long day

adding lots of emojis when i text

getting a hug

watching movies

going thrift shopping

eating pancakes or waffles in the morning

wearing big hoodies or tshirts

getting a gift

putting stickers e v e r y w h e r e

reading a funny book

getting scared (i instantly regress when im startled/scared)

listening to music

cuddling under a blanket at 3 am

hearing a good joke/meme

onesies! - if you want to wear them & can buy stuff online for yourself (without anyone snooping!), onesies can be very discreet! you can wear them under normal clothes, especially hoodies, or even wear them to bed as pjs!

(🧦) sockies! - no one questions fun socks! you can wear cute socks with anything and hide them easily! and knee high/thigh high socks can make you feel super small!!

(👕) fun shirts! - there are lots of fun shirts for cartoons and video games you can wear! both men and women sections sell them, so no one will mind!

(💍) jewelry/accessories! - anyone can wear cute jewelry or accessories! rings and necklaces and bracelets and hats can all be fun little space clothes!

hoodies! - hoodies are so, so comfy!! and big oversized hoodies can make you feel very small!

1-2 year old

+ Doesn't know how to talk → makes noises (bzzzz🐝) or just mumbles/babbles (dadadada)

+ Needs a paci and favourite stuffie 🧸

+ Chews/sucks on everything in reach

+ Points at stuff for no reason👉👆

+ Giggles a lot 😄

+ Grabby hands

+ Hides🙈

+ Rocks back and forth

+ Is scared easily → cries

2-3 year old

+ Wants a paci and stuffies 🧸

+ Tries to talk, can't say r → w

+ BLANKIES and PILLOWS!!

+ JAMMIES!! (is sleepy all the time)😴

+ Coloring🌈

+ Spills everything (needs a bottle)🍼

+ Eats everything with hands

+ "penguin" walk🐧

+ Nursery songs (baby shark, itsy bitsy spider,..)🦈🕷️

+ Bouncing, exited, happy😄

+ Wouldn't break a rule

+ Cries if being punished

+ Wants cuddles🤗

+ Pouts a lot

+ Sweater paws

+ CARTOONS

4-5 year old

+ Is bratty a lot

+ NO

+ WHYYYYY

+ BUT, BUT, BUT

+ Tries to avoid punishment

+ Kicking, whining, grumbling

+ Likes to stick out tongue at Daddy😛

+ Calls others meaniebutt, but still doesn't know swear words

+ Secretly loves tickling but never ever would admit it

+ Attention seeker

+ Rule-breaker

+ Is curious

+ Exaggerates

+ Drawings✏️

+ Jumpy, dances, stomps down the stairs

+ Is messy

+ Stuffies, chocolate/strawberry milk and cookies 🧸🍪🥛

☁️ angel littles ☁️

✨ loves sanrio

✨ never a brat

✨ pastel colors

✨ pacis and bottles

✨ fluffly socks

✨ lace & frills

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🦕 dino littles 🦕

🦎 bright colors

🦎 sippy cups with fun patterns

🦎 onesies

🦎 wayyy too much energy

🦎 can’t color in the lines

🦎 thinks they’re independent until they actually have to do something by themselves

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💫 fairy littles 💫

🍄 loves going outside

🍄 makes bracelets and jewelery for their cg

🍄 argumentative

🍄 braids their hair (if its long enough)

🍄 floaty skirts 

🍄 cuts sandwiches with cookie cutters

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🐌 snail littles 🐌

🌱 shy

🌱 mostly nonverbal

🌱 big sweatshirts

🌱 grabby hands

🌱 loves baking/eating baked goods

🌱 always sleepy

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🐛 how long have you been regressing?

🍓 what’s what age(s) do you regress to?

🍼 do you wear diaps/pull-ups during teeny time?

🌸 do you have a cg?

🌱 do you have any baby gear?

☀️ what’s your favorite thing about regressing?

🚀 what’s your favorite cartoon/movie when small?

🌈 do your parent(s)/guardian(s) know you regress?

🐳 what’s your favorite activity?

🧸 how many stuffies do you have?

🧃 what’s your favorite teeny time snack?

🖍 do you like to color/draw?

☁️ when do you usually regress?

🎀 have you ever had a play date?

🌙 do you have a bedtime?

🦷 do you believe in santa or the tooth fairy?

🐰 do you also pet regress? what animal?

🙈 what’s your favorite pet name?

🧺 do you have any sibbies?

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𝘃𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗹𝗹𝗮 𝗺𝗶𝗹𝗸🍶 - 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘄𝗲𝗲𝘁𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻, 𝘄𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀 𝗱𝗶𝗮𝗽𝘀, 𝗶𝘀 𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗽𝗹𝗮𝘆𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝘆𝗲𝘁 𝘀𝗵𝘆, 𝗮 𝗹𝗶𝗹 𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗹🥺, 𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗯𝗮𝗯𝗶𝗲, 𝗯𝗹𝗼𝗰𝗸𝗶𝗲𝘀, '𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗶 𝗯𝘂𝗯𝗮?', 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝗺𝘆 𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘁𝗹𝗲 𝗽𝗼𝗻𝘆 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀

𝗿𝗲𝗴𝘂𝗹𝗮𝗿 𝗺𝗶𝗹𝗸🥛 - 𝗮 𝗹𝗶𝗹 𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗱𝘆, 𝗿𝗲𝗴𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗮 𝘁𝗼𝗱𝗱𝗹𝗲𝗿, '𝗶𝗺𝗺𝗮 𝗯𝗶𝗴 𝗸𝗶𝗱 (𝗰𝗴)!', 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗼𝗼𝗱𝗹𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲, 𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲, 𝘂𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝗽𝗮𝗰𝗶'𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗺, 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘀, 𝗵𝗼𝗼𝗱𝗶𝗲𝘀, 𝘀𝗰𝗳𝗶/𝗮𝗱𝘃𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝘃𝗶𝗲𝘀

𝘄𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿💧 - 𝗮 𝗽𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱, 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝘄𝗶𝗺, 𝘀𝗻𝘂𝗴𝗴𝗹𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝗽𝗮𝘁𝘀!!, 𝗽𝗲𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗴𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗲𝘀, 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝘀𝘁𝘂𝗳𝗳𝗶𝗲𝘀 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲, 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲𝗹𝘆 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗼𝗼, 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗰, 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗼𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗱𝗮𝘆

Hey kiddos! Over the years I’ve had lots of new CGs ask me for tips on what they can do to be the best CG they can be. I decided to turn that question into a post for y’all. Being a CG is something that takes time and experience, so we’ll just be going over the basics that every CG should know!

What is a Caregiver?

A caregiver (CG for short) is a person who cares for and looks after a regressor while they are small! 

Can I only be someone’s Caregiver if I am dating them?

Not at all! Not every regressor and CG are in a relationship. Sometimes a CG and regressor are just friends, this is called a platonic CG!

Is it easy to be a Caregiver?

The short answer is “No”. Being a CG is a lot of responsibility and it is not a task that someone should take lightly. Caring for another person can be hard sometimes, it can be emotionally taxing. This isn’t to say that being a CG is impossibly difficult, but if you aren’t willing to make a commitment to your regressor and take on the responsibility of caring for them then you should re-consider being a Caregiver.

Do I have to be a CG 24/7?

Absolutely not! It’s unresonable to expect a CG to be in a perpetual state of caring all day every day. Just like most regressors are not regressed 24/7, most CGs are not in caring mode 24/7 either. The most amount of caring is done while the regressor is regressed, and when they are not regressed the relationship dynamic is however the two of you want it to be.

What are some good traits to have as a CG?

While the best qualities to have depend on the person you are caring for, it’s always important for a CG to be patient, emapthetic, respectful, and willing to learn! It’s also very important that you and your regressor set clear boundaries with one another and respect those boundaries at all times. 

How can I be the best CG I can be?

Being a CG is not an exact science, every caring relationship is unique to the CG and the regressor. However, no matter what it is vitally important that you and your regressor communicate. I’m going to say it again just because of how important it is; no matter what you and your regressor need to communicate. 

No one knows how to care for your regressor better than they do. If you don’t know how to care for them or you feel like you could be doing better, you should talk to your regressor. Ask them how they want to be cared for, ask them if they feel well cared for, no one will be able to answer those types of questions but your regressor.

Is anything else that’s important to know?

➪︎ 𝐰𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐜𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐜𝐮𝐭𝐞! (𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐞𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐲 𝐠𝐨 𝐭𝐨)

➪︎ 𝐮𝐬𝐞 '𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐢𝐞𝐫' 𝐚𝐝𝐮𝐥𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐬, 𝐧𝐨𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐮𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐚 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠!

➪︎ 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐢𝐩𝐩𝐲𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞𝐬, 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐚 𝐜𝐮𝐭𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞!

➪︎ 𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐛𝐮𝐛𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐛𝐚𝐭𝐡 𝐝𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐚𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞!

➪︎ 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐛𝐚𝐛𝐲 𝐛𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐤𝐞𝐭𝐬, 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐚 𝐩𝐥𝐮𝐬𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐰 𝐛𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐤𝐞𝐭, 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐨𝐧𝐞!

➪︎ 𝐞𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐢𝐭𝐬 (𝐜𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐢𝐞𝐬), 𝐦𝐚𝐜 𝐧 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐞𝐬𝐞, 𝐥𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐲𝐩𝐨𝐩𝐬 (𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐤𝐞𝐲 𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐨𝐬, 𝐬𝐚𝐲 𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐧𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐠𝐢𝐜 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐬, 𝐢 𝐝𝐨!)

(nd = neurodivergent)

🌈 understand they may go mute, this is not something you did it just happens sometimes

🌈 know their stims and why each happens so you can know how they are feeling from just that

🌈 carry some fidget toys so they can use them when they are over/under stimulated

🌈 know the signs of meltdowns so you can get them somewhere they feel safe

🌈 ask them what you can do to help when they are having a meltdown or are overwhelmed

🌈 ask them if they are comfortable being touched, some prefer heavy/light touch some do not like it at all

🌈 get to know what textures they are okay with and which they hate

🌈 if they like routine help them make one if they struggle to stick to it

Note: All of these activities can be enjoyed by anyone. Not one activity is exclusive to male identifying littles🥰

🏀 Sports! ⚽️

Take some time on a nice sunny cool day to grab a ball and throw it around! Or even take them to a local park or beach and play frisbee or volleyball. Its a nice way to bond, have fun, and exercise! But make sure to wear plenty of sunscreen and drink water!

🐛 Bug Hunting 🦋

If your little is a bug lover then go to a local park and bring your trusty net and bucket! Go around digging in the dirt, searching in bushes, trees and the grass to spot and look for cool bugs! But BE CAREFUL! We don’t want to hurt these little guys so make sure to either leave them alone or handle with care☺️ You can even collect them in a small container with holes or a bucket to look at them and name them before releasing them back into the wild! Make sure not to bring any new friends back with you and don’t disturb any obvious nests or homes!

🐠Swimming and Sandcastles🏝

Go to a local pool or beach and have some fun in the waves! Collect shells, have a sandcastle building contest, or just splash around. Make sure your little is a strong swimmer before heading out! Bring a towel, sunscreen, and maybe even something fun like water guns or pool noodles! If you’re at the beach bringing a pair of goggles and a snorkel would be fun too so you can spot the various fish underwater🐬

✂️ Crafts 🖍

Get a cute craft kit from your local craft store! My favorite ones are the slime making, fossil digging, or jewelry making kits! Its a easy fun activity to fill your afternoon and you get a cool toy after!

💎Dungeons and Dragons ⚔️

This one might be a bit of a surprise but what little doesn’t want to defeat monsters, tame a dragon, or defend a town? Learn how to play and create your own session of dungeons and dragons (little friendly of course!) You can create and draw your own characters, go on a fun adventure and make new friends with this fun game!

⛺️Camping 🔦

Indoor or outdoor camping can be a blast! Set up a small tent outside or build a pillow fort indoors. Use a projector, laptop, phone, or tv to play your favorite movie and camp there all night with some snacks and stuffies!! It gives you a comfy cozy spot to sleep for the night and don’t forget your flashlight to make shadow puppets with!

☠️Treasure hunt💎

Pretend to be a pirate and make a fun treasure map of a local park, your backyard, a beach, or other safe location! The caregiver can hide a fun prize where X marks the spot and the little must follow the clues to find it! This can create lots of fun play and it a nice activity for even multiple littles to participate in!

🧩 Team Games 🥇

Get a group of friends together to play some fun games! You can go play lazer tag, mini golf or even go to an arcade and play games there! This one will cost a little bit of money so make sure you’re prepared but its very fun for a special trip! Littles can bond with other littles and caregivers and make lots of new friends this way!

💫 fun hair clips or bows

🧃 patterned socks

💫  beaded bracelets with cute words or colors

🧃 tiny stuffie or keychain in your bag

💫  oversized hoodies or t-shirts

🧃  little or no makeup

💫  pigtails or braids, if your hair is long enough

🧃 cute patterns on masks! bonus for staying safe!

💫  paint your nails cute colors!

🧃 bring snacks that make you feel little! 

♡ feel like crying

♡ want to break everything

♡ feel afraid and alone

♡ isolate myself

♡ have tantrums

♡ need attention otherwise i feel unimportant and unwanted

♡ have bad thoughts

♡ feel embarrassed and ashamed

♡ have intrusive thoughts

♡ struggle getting into or out of regression

♡ ask to be left alone but i really don’t want that

♡ get angry and throw my stuffies or spit out my paci

♡ go nonverbal

♡ cry until i can’t anymore