Little Frog

Recently i have stumbled across a submissive, and she is a good friend of mine now. It upsets me to see her cry, get angry, and feel neglected by her Dom. I don’t know the whole story so i am not picking sides. But:

•Littles in general are supposed to be clingy, i wouldnt have it any other way if i had a little •Littles are supposed to be “cutely annoying” at that point its not even annoying, wake me up by poking my cheeks 17,000 times. I will hug the stuffing out of you •Littles do have a lot of anxiety, i mean come on, if you had a paci, a stuffies, and quite possibly a diaper, and you had to leave your home and go be “big” it kind of ruins your mood •Littles have a tendency to think you are off gallivanting with someone else if you don’t text them at least 3 times a day “good morning” Afternoon i am still alive" and “Goodnight Cutie, sleep well” (this is specifically to distance) •Littles are some of the most precious things on the planet, when they light up about something they are happy about, it is the most adorable thing of all time.

Okay, let me start off with Items in general. 

Seeing an item like a diaper or a dummy does nothing for either of us, it’s just an item the same as how a blanket or a bag or a lamp is just an item.

Seeing that item on a child does nothing either, it’s just a child interacting with that item. 

Look at it like this. Kids kick balls around all the time, right? a big bouncy ball is a childish item? But when you see footballers you don’t instantly look at them and think of kids do you? You see them as adults playing football, a sport. They mean something different. They are adults playing with that item.

The item is just an item. It’s all about WHO interacts with that item and for what reasons. 

An adult taking childish clothes or items and interacting with them means something completely different to what it means when a kid does. Try to understand that putting an item into different peoples hands for different reasons can mean completely different things. 

So thats all I have to say on items. Now onto power dynamics. 

In d/s (dominant/submissive) dynamics you have a higher person and a lower person. There are people who get off on power dynamics and roleplaying. We use items to reinforce simulated power dynamics. 

Outside of play Michael and I are equal. We are both responsible adults, both make important decisions and are in control of ourselves. When in play one of us needs to be reduced somewhat so that the dynamic is clear. We like to roleplay to reinforce our dynamic. So we use natural dynamics in everyday life to help us distinguish the roles and then we go from there. for example

You have a boss right? they tell you what to do and you follow. You’ve been a student before, I am sure. You had a teacher who was in charge of teaching you. You’ve had a pet? You are in charge of that pet. Children don’t make the decisions, parents/guardians do. These are all natural dynamics you see in all walks of life. We can even narrow it down to the nitty gritty and say in packs of wolves you have the dominant male and female of the pack? You have predators and prey,  You see what I mean? These are just natural dynamics. In normal situations it’s just natural and you think nothing of it. 

We just play into those dynamics and then take it to where we want to.

When we do petplay, we aren’t saying we want to fuck animals or hurt them.

It’s just a dynamic. We don’t get sexually aroused whenever we see that dynamic in normal situations. I don’t get wet when I see a puppy roll on it’s back for tummy rubs or fetch a stick. 

I do get sexually aroused when I do that. When I, an ADULT HUMAN, behave like a dog, I am Diminishing my dominance and control. That is what sexually arouses us, me interacting with that item (ie the stick) is reinforcing that dynamic. I don’t get sexually aroused when I see sticks or dogs playing with sticks. 

The same goes for ageplay. (or for any play for that matter that involves power dynamics)

I’m not explaining this to you so that you understand it, I’m not trying to convince you or any one for that matter. I honestly don’t care what you think about what me and my boyfriend enjoy together. I am typing this out so that the answer is easily accessible so if other uneducated berks feel the need to send me messages like this, it’s there.  

Hopefully this makes sense and I haven’t missed anything out.

The Official “Log Off” Protest F.A.Q! 

The “Log Off” protest is in response to the recent NSFW ban announced by Tumblr. The ban flags all content the filtering system detects as NSFW, reducing visibility to the community. The system has proven time and time again that is inefficient, oftentimes flagging SFW material as NSFW. 

This SFW material includes art, memes and so on. This ban directly hurts the community and will not solve the actual problems at hand due to the poor flagging system. Because of this, the entire community will suffer.  

So to respond, I propose that every user on Tumblr logs off of Tumblr for 24 hours on December 17th at 12 am EST. 

Times are listed above depending on timezone! 

This post responds to some very common questions about the protest. So make sure to read it over! 

How to Export Your Blog: 

https://tumblr.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/360005118894-Export-your-blog

Alternative Sites: 

Pillowfort

Mastodan 

Wordpress 

Twitter 

There is also an official Tumblr blog (ironic, huh?) and Twitter for the protest! It’s at: 

Twitter - https://twitter.com/logoffprotest

Tumblr - https://logoffprotest.tumblr.com/

There will be official updates on each account. Make sure to tag us in any posts, or use the hashtag #logoff2018 ! 

I’m American. I live right in the southwest and let me tell you, it’s hell over here right now, but it will become a lot worse if Article 13 is passed. 

You’ve probably heard about Article 13, and if you haven’t, go watch this video right now. Whatever you’re doing can wait for sixteen minutes and two seconds, because a second-long vote could destroy everything online.

Whether you’re from Europe or not, this law could affect you, so you should care Article 13 because it is going to destroy the online lives that you have built. No more posting memes, no more remixes, and no more YouTubers from anywhere. 

Jacksepticeye will no longer be able to upload. 

Markiplier will no longer be able to upload. 

MatPat won’t.

Thomas Sanders.

Dan and Phil.

How to Basic. 

All of your favorite content creators are at risk of losing their jobs because people want stricter laws on copyright, which will support the larger media companies but kill smaller creators. And because of this, we may lose everything online. 

So spread the word! Reblog this, reblog other people’s posts, find petitions, write your own posts! If you’re in Europe, contact your MEP’s and get them to understand how it will affect the people who use the internet. 

Please. 

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