i love soup

i think i would rather encounter multiple women who take astrology too seriously over even one guy who genuinely believes in sigma/alpha/beta male bullshit

loving and respecting black women goes beyond finding your black favs hot and calling them the blueprint . If you don’t extend your love and admiration to the black women in your life whether they are close to you or just working at your local shop or just waiting in an elevator with you then your activism means nothing . And loving and respecting black women doesn’t mean fetishizing us it means respecting us as people with inner lives and flamboyant souls and emotions and BOUNDARIES . Let’s get that in all y’all leftists heads

Just a reminder that if you're disabled, neurodivergent, mentally ill or otherwise "othered" by society it's okay to just be average. You don't have to have a hidden talent or be a savant to be worthy of love and acceptance. Just being you is more than enough, you're absolutely perfect and wonderful the way you are

look. when someone has wealthy parents, private tutors, a warm house, a quiet environment for studying, a comfortable environment for studying and plenty of room for "failure" because they always have their parents' money as an option.......i just don't think the academic achievements of such a person are all that impressive. sorry :/

not sorry actually. i hope all rich students know they will never be as groundbreaking, intelligent or hard-working as they think they are. i hope they feel so much guilt for the poor students whose opportunities they have belittled or straight-up stolen. and i hope they start caring more about helping and listening to people more unfortunate than them and less about those people refusing to applaud them for their meaningless academic successes

Using they/them for people who's pronouns you know are NOT they/them is degendering and misgendering, and it's disrespectful. Don't do that. Not even to trans people you don't like. Correct pronouns are not a reward for good behavior, they're basic recognition of personhood.

reminder that he/him lesbian is NOT a contradictory identity. calling it contradictory is in fact both transphobic and lesbophobic. people are allowed to use whatever pronouns they want regardless of their gender identity and sexuality, using a certain set of pronouns doesn’t mean your gender contradicts your sexuality, because pronouns don’t define gender

sometimes your only connection to womanhood is your lesbianism and you only feel you connect with gender when its in a gay context and thats okay and also very cool and sexy! 

Sometimes the best word to describe your gender is just “lesbian” or “butch” and if that’s the case you’re cool and completely valid.

just so everyone knows, those aren’t genders and implying lesbian is a separate gender from woman, that lesbians aren’t women because they like other women, is homophobic

Nice reach buddy! Anyway, my sexuality is inextricably linked to my gender and because of a combination of lesbophobia, my own experiences and my own dysphoria, I dont feel any way towards any gender in particular except for the knowledge that I am a butch lesbian. Hope this helps!