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Being a lot to handle is NOT a bad thing. You are a complex being with a story, emotions, thoughts, fears, interests, values, ideas etc. Do not listen to anyone who tells you that you are too much - it simply means that there is more to love about you. You contain an entire universe inside of you and if anybody claims that you are too hard to deal with, it just means that they are incapable of loving every part of you. It has absolutely nothing to do with you. So, embrace every little thing of your wonderful soul, my love. For: "You will never be too much for the person who cannot get enough of you."

don’t let the people who have hurt you ruin the things you enjoy. you used to watch that show with your ex? if you love it, keep watching it. your former friend introduced you to your favorite band? don’t stop listening to their music. it might hurt at first, but eventually it’ll stop feeling like it’s their thing and start feeling like your thing again.

This is for everyone who may feel heartbroken at the moment, for everyone who thinks that the pain will never fade, for everyone who keeps questioning their worth and for everyone who is convinced that they will never find love again: One day your heart will ache a little less when you hear their name. One day that one song will not make you cry anymore. One day you will look that person in the eye and you will be glad that you did not end up with them. Until then, please try to feel the pain instead of burying it and please try to forgive whomever may have hurt you and most importantly forgive yourself. Holding a grudge against someone will only make you suffer, so let go, darling; let go of the pain, step by step and watch yourself bloom. People that leave are meant to leave; they were meant to be in your life for a short period of time to teach you valuable lessons. I am not saying that letting go of someone you truly loved is easy but you deserve so much better than someone who puts you through such pain, my love. Let yourself feel, let yourself cry, let it all out. Some day you will be okay, I promise. And you will heal again and you will learn to love again. You are doing such a good job; everything is going to work out, I promise.

you are not unloveable just because people have treated you poorly

i’m dropping hints that i would devote my life to you, that my heart belongs to you and you can do what you like with it, that i was born to love and take care of you for as long as you’d have me, and i’d never leave your side if you’d permit it