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I get this question a lot so I thought I’d answer it publicly for once.

Everyone already knows about size. Guys always talk about length, but in my experience girth is actually an even bigger difference between black guys and white guys. You have to remember that girls aren’t flat 2d creatures. It’s the volume that matters when it comes to stimulation, not just length.

Most guys seem to talk about size like it’s everything though, which size is great and all, but to me it’s only one part of what makes black guys so good in bed. Stamina is just as important and maybe I’ve just had bad luck with white guys, but stamina is probably one of my favorite things about black guys.

One thing I love about black guys is confidence, both in bed and out of bed. Guys that are bigger and know they’re good in bed have a certain kind of confidence or “swagger” or something like that. And they come across as way more masculine as a result of it. That confidence to just go for whatever you want and not worry about anything is really attractive, and in bed that confidence sort of puts my mind at ease and makes it easy for me to enjoy it more and not get stuck in my head with my thoughts. I can just lose myself in the feeling.

I think everything else is less about being objectively better and more about personal preference. I personally like being submissive, and it seems like lots of white guys are somewhat submissive or lie somewhere in the middle, which doesn’t really do it for me. My experience with black guys is that they’re dominant, which is great but I feel like some of them go way overboard and have no off switch for public, which can be awkward. 

They can also be super aggressive and blunt in approaching me. Which it feels nice to be wanted that badly and they keep doing it because it works, but again they can go overboard and don’t pick up on social q’s when it’s a bad time. So it’s a mixed bag. Rough around the edges is kind of an understatement for a lot of them. There’s nothing like being approached by a guy at the gym while I’m with my dad, then telling him that’s my dad (so they’ll pick up on the hint and leave me alone), and then have them point blank tell my dad that his daughter’s hot and try to keep hitting on me. Like really? Did you think that was going to go well? And it’s even worse if you run into a guy you’ve already hooked up with.

Anyway that’s sort of a side track, but those sort of things matter to girls in sex partners because nobody wants to have a public image of being a slut. I guess I’m pointing out the negatives too lol.

There are a bunch of other little things I like about black guys that nobody really talks about. Like to me the texture of their skin feels really good. I’m addicted to running my hands over their skin, especially if it’s a muscular guy and you can feel the muscles underneath. And the feeling of their skin pressed against me as we have sex is incredible.

Another thing is their natural scent. I feel like every race has a certain signature scent undertone or pheromones or something. For me, the scent black guys have is intoxicating. I know this one is kind of weird, but it’s literally one of the bigger things for me. I’m not sure if it’s something that’s always driven me crazy because of pheromones and my personal biology or something, or maybe it’s just that I started associating that scent with good feelings after I started having sex with black guys, but either way it drives me crazy. I can literally end up soaking wet from just their natural scent, which makes going to the gym rough for me lol. Probably why the gym is the easiest place for me to get “picked up”. This is my main weakness lol. I’m pretty sure it at least has something to do with my biology though because even when I don’t like a guy and don’t want to have sex with him, his natural scent can still get to me, so it seems unrelated to what I actually want.

There are some other little things that I like about some black guys, like the qualities of the sound of their voice. Their individual qualities in bed and the type of things they’re into. The way they dirty talk. Their physical features like the shape of their butts (yes girls love nice butts just as much as guys!) Etc. The list is really long for me which is probably why I’m so into them.

I feel like a topic many people shy away from talking about in relation to sex is racial tension. Sometimes the dirty talk and the way they treat me in bed feels like they’re releasing all of the built up racial tension in that moment. Whether it comes from racism they’ve experienced or whatever, that sort of release of energy can be super intense. And I don’t think it’s possible to experience that kind of intensity with a white guy. Plus it’s probably really healthy to release that built up tension, so I feel like I’m actually having a positive effect on guys which makes me feel good.