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Margaret Cho: Trolls Who Call Me ‘Fat And Ugly’ Are Admitting Defeat

Margaret Cho has a simple philosophy for dealing with degrading comments about herself: If you’re debating a woman and you stoop to calling her “fat” or “ugly,” you’ve already lost the argument.

pendants dangling from necklaces when they lean over 

how they brush hair out of their faces

little moles and freckles on shoulders and backs

how deep their voices can get when they’re truly just kickin it instead of trynna be professional or cute

how they just tell u where they got an accessory or part of their outfit if u compliment them on it

Change your clothes. Even if you’re already wearing something comfortable, change into something else that’s still casual and comfy.

Eat your favorite food. A bowl of rice, ice cream, pasta, make a sandwich, anything that makes you happy.

Eat some fruit. A banana, apple, peach, pear, some berries, fruit is always a good option.

Eat some protein. Cheese, meat, eggs, rice and beans, ect. Something to give you energy.

Drink lots of water. Fill up a water bottle and keep it with you, but remember to actually drink it.

Find as many pillows and blankets as you can around the house and pile them on your bed. THE MESSIER, THE BETTER!

Bring your acquired snacks into your room. Even if you don’t make a habit of eating in your room, make an exception this time.

Bring a couple of your favorite stuffed animals to share your nest with.

If you have cats, invite them as well.

Watch an episode or two of your favorite show GUILT FREE. Nothing sad! Watch something that will make you smile and laugh a lot. And ENJOY IT. Give yourself this time to decompress without stressing over a million other things. I know it can be hard, but YOU CAN DO IT

Hang a sign outside your door, letting family members/roommates know that you are currently unavailable. Be polite, courteous, and take their needs into consideration if they need something from you, but it’s okay to have a little chunk of time all to yourself when you’re having a tough day. We’ve all been there.

Turn off your phone. Just for a little while so you can completely relax. Stay off social media too - you don’t need any drama right now.

Once you’ve finished your show and eaten a healthy amount of food, do something productive. Even if it’s just one or two little chores - sweep, do the dishes, tidy up your room, dust, reorganize the bookshelf, whatever. Do something that will make you feel like you’ve accomplished something. Even if it’s little, be proud of yourself for each task!

Listen to music while you’re working. iPod, record player, radio, etc. Make it something up beat with a nice and lively tempo.

Dance and sing. I don’t care if you dance like a fish out of water and sing like a dog whose tail was stepped on, you are a beautiful contribution to this world so don’t be afraid to shine!

Alternate in doing tasks throughout the day with doing things you enjoy. Paperwork and then a walk (fresh air always helps!), mop the floors than read that book you’ve been wanting to explore.

Talk to a friend if you need to. If you don’t think you have anyone to talk to, let me be the first to tell you, YOU DO! There are thousands of kindhearted people on here who would love to get to know you and want to help you and hear about your day if you are feeling under the weather.

to bi girls who once identified as lesbians: you are NOT reinforcing the stereotype that “lesbians are also into men sometimes”, you’re just someone learning more about yourself and your identity.