girl talk: stop being naive, girl.
this is gonna seem harsh but can y’all stop being naive. this is coming from a place of love btw. but when y’all ask me “what does it mean when a guy does xyz” i can’t help but to get a little frustrated, because….. it means exactly what you think it means. men are not good liars at all, and i feel like most of you know this and see that the men you’re stressing over really ain’t shit but yet continue to ignore that in order to protect your own feelings and i’m telling y’all. you need to stop. i’ve said it time again & again stop putting these dudes on pedestals, take off the rose colored glasses and call a spade a spade. y’all be like “well he lied to me about having 3 baby mommas and 10 kids but last week he said i’m the only one for him and he took me to applebees so he must be in love with me” like no. stop. lying. to. yourself. girl. stop taking the iota of good shit that he does and smearing it over the ton of bad shit in order to cover it up. you can put lipstick on a pig and it will still be a pig. you should always pay attention to people’s actions instead of their words, and i feel like you all know this, you just continue to manipulate and overthink everything he says and does until you hypnotize yourself into believing he’s the prince charming you want him to be. stop being so desperate. stop settling for bullshit. stop being so thirsty for a man & his validation that you’re willing to sacrifice your own dignity.
you wanna know how you can tell if a dude is a fuckboy? listen to that little voice in your head that is screaming at you over and over saying “uh-uh, this ain’t right!!! alert!!!! abort mission!!!” because 10 times out of 10, that voice is right. it’s literally THAT simple. like i said, men are not good liars, they aren’t complicated or hard to understand, they all show their ass eventually; you just continue to turn a blind eye. when you start making excuses for him and doing all that other bs it not only makes you look desperate, it makes you look weak, and there’s nothing fuckboys love more than the weak. sure, it hurts to cut off someone you thought would be different, but that pain is literally minuscule compared to the pain you’re gonna be feeling when he finally leaves you in the dust. realize your worth. sitting up at night lurking his instagram and stressing about what he meant when he said xyz should be beneath you. women have always been told that we should value a man over everything else- even ourselves. that’s a toxic way to think. a fuckboy is not better than no boy at all.
“When someone shows you who they are believe them; the first time.”
― Maya Angelou
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