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also not every play has to be relevant to the modern day it's okay if it's mostly about greek politics. maybe you'll learn something about greek politics. it's okay

phone addiction is absurd bc it’s like ah yes perhaps one more visit to the rectangle of no enrichment or fulfillment will finally enrich and fulfill me

Sometimes I wonder if that demographic of ostensibly "binary" trans people who get weird about it when grouped as Actually being the same gender as their cis counterparts (usually men) are like. Literally just nonbinary and repressed about it. How many complicated tboys talking about "but I'm not REALLY a MAN man" would be better off just, putting a word to that experience instead of trying to stretch definitions and other people's boundaries etc etc to include "men who aren't really men but they are real men just not *cis* men" like Dude ...

Like the conversation tends to revolve around the idea that these guys Are binary men who are just Being Weird About It but honestly like. Putting aside the "you're gonna have to contend with what Being A Man means as a trans guy" while that is true. If you really truly feel like you're a secret third thing. You don't have to call yourself a man. You can be a secret third thing. Being nonbinary is Allowed

Does anybody else remember Nonbinary. I fear the mean little boys of the late 2010s truscum discourse era won that war & a lot of trans people present as more strictly binary than they are for the sake of Validity. But then you get a bunch of people talking like That. And it makes me think. How many of you got bullied back into the closet and/or came out circa 2020 after all of that and think nonbinary is when a cis woman has pronouns ... and then you get other Actually Binary trans people yelling at you about third-gendering them when you make sweeping statements about this feeling that's Not Universal

yes that’s so cute!!!!!!!! but i disagree

How the fuck are there unsolved math problems lol like just times it. Use a calacater

Take that's probably gonna get me yelled at: I'd be really interested to see how many trans men would still identify with queer womanhood if the word "lesbian" didn't exist. Like if they had to call themselves "gay women" or something like that. Because I, for one, have never seen a trans women who doesn't hate herself identify with the label of "man," gay or otherwise. I just feel like "lesbian" is seen as linguistically flexible enough to accommodate the men who want to make it theirs.

90% of the time when someone's like "i they/them everyone i see :)" they rarely actually do that. they just they/them the people they think "look trans"