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Not wanting to have sex is NOT a problem. It doesn’t matter if you are asexual or allo, there is nothing wrong with not wanting sex. It’s just an activity. That’d be like saying that if you don’t like soccer, you need to go to soccer therapy to figure out why you dislike it and figure out how to like it because it’s for your own good. See how ridiculous that sounds? IT IS OK TO NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX AND IT IS NOT SOMETHING THAT NEEDS TO BE FIXED!!!!!!

Please do not date someone mentally ill if you do not have the patience to deal with them. don’t tell them all of these sweet things only to yell at them when they’re crying over something that you may think is small. don’t lie to them and twist the truth even if it’s only in the slightest. don’t hide things from them even if you may think it’s for the best and if you break their trust do not expect things to go back to normal instantly and do not get frustrated if they seem more withdrawn. do not invalidate how they are feeling. don’t lead them on or force them to stay with false promises of things changing.