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ab intra - from within

ab origine - from the source

absit iniuria - “let insult be absent”

absit invidia - “let envy be absent”

absit omen - “let omens be absent”

ab uno disce omnes - from one, learn all.

abyssus abyssum invocat - deep calleth unto deep

a capite ad calcem - from head to heel

acta non verba - actions not words

ad altiora tendo - “I strive to higher things”

ad astra - to the stars

ad fontes - to the sources

ad meliora - towards better things

ad oculos - to the eyes

ad undas - to the waves

ad victoriam - to victory

adsum - I am here

a fortiori - from the stronger/from strength

a mari usque ad mare - from sea to sea

audeamus - let us dare

audentes fortuna iuvat - fortune favors the bold

audi, vide, tace - hear, see, be silent

beatae memoriae - of blessed memory

bona fide - in good faith

bono malum superate - overcome evil with good

capax infiniti - holding the infinite

carpe diem - seize the day

carpe noctem - seize the night

cave - beware

ceteris paribus - all other things being equal

circa - around

citius, altius, fortius - faster, higher, stronger

clavis aurea - golden key

cogito ergo sum - I think, therefor I am

compos mentis - in control of the mind

concilio et labore - by wisdom and effort

concordia cum veritate - in harmony with truth

concordia salus - well-being through harmony

coniunctis viribus - with connected strength

consummatum est - it is complete

corruptus in extremis - corrupt to the extreme

crescit eundo - it grows as it goes

de novo - from the new

de profundis - from the depths

dies irae - day of wrath

dona nobis pacem - give us peace

ego te provoco - I challenge you

esse est percipi - to be is to be perceived  

esse quam videri - to be, rather than to seem

esto quod es - be what you are

ex animo - from the soul

ex luna scientia - from the moon, knowledge

ex scientia tridens - from knowledge, sea power

ex silentio - from silence

ex undis - from the waves of the sea

experientia docet - experience teaches

fac et spera - do and hope

fac fortia et patere - do brave deed and endure

faciam quodlibet quod necesse est - I’ll do whatever it takes

faciam ut mei memineris - I’ll make you remember me

facta, non verba - deeds, not words

fortis et liber - strong and free

fortis in arduis - strong in difficulties

gloriosus et liber - glorious and free

hic abundant leones - here lions abound

hic et nunc - here and now

hic sunt dracones - here there are dragons

hinc illae lacrimae - hence those tears

hinc itur ad astra - from here the way leads to the stars

igni ferroque - with fire and iron

in memoriam - into the memory

in nocte consilium - advice comes over night

libra - balance

littera scripta manet - the written words endure

locus standi - a right to stand

luceo non uro - I shine, not burn

luctor et emergo - I struggle and emerge

mare liberum - free sea

memento vivere - remember to live

more ferarum - like beasts

natura non contristatur - nature is not saddened

nec spe, nec metu - without hope, without fear

noli me tangere - do not touch me

ophidia in herba - a snake in the grass

pro se - for oneself

propria manu - by one’s own hand

quaere - to seek

quod abundat non obstat - what is abundant does not hinder

resurgam - I shall arise

semper ad meliora - always towards better things

semper anticus - always forward

semper apertus - always open

semper fortis - always brave

semper liber - always free

stet - let it stand

tuebor - I will protect

ok so if everythings normal, your phone camera should have a manual mode (sometimes called pro mode). in it, change the settings of the shutter lag to 20 seconds, then put the phone down on some stable, plane surface and press the photo button (usually when using your camera, the volume buttons can be used as photo button) and let the phone still for the whole 20 seconds. 

Additionally, adjust your ISO to the highest number (mimics the film used for very low light and low speed images)

And set your shutter speed to the longest time possible (on my phone it’s 10 seconds).

Leave your focus settings on Auto, and if your phone camera has a timer option, turn that on (five seconds is generally enough).

Plan your shot first, then find a place to set your phone down so you can get the image you want. The less light pollution, the better; you’ll pick up FAR more stars in your picture.

Once you know what you want to shoot, tap your screen to “focus” it, then hit the button to take the picture, set your phone down, and back away from the “tripod”. Don’t touch your phone for a good 15 seconds, just to be sure.

You will not be disappointed in the results, let me assure you.

Not even a little bit.

In 2018….

May your sippy never run empty

May you always find your paci

May your stuffies never rip

May you always find happiness in your CG or friends

May your naps never be interrupted

May you always be happy and healthy, too

Dear CGs

In 2018….

May you always find the patience you need throughout the day

May you always have the courage to do the impossible

May you reach your dreams and goals you want to complete

May you know you are loved and cherished so very much

May your mental health issues stay as calm as possible

Essentially, aftercare is what a submissive requires to feel safe, appreciated, and comforted after undergoing an intense scene.

BDSM escalates endorphins and sexual arousal, launching you into an altered mental state comparable to being intoxicated or drug-induced. This reaction is often referred to as “subspace,” and for BDSM practitioners, aftercare is vital in calming down the nerves and bringing a submissive back to reality. A compassionate Dominant understands that the sub’s sexual boundaries may have been pushed and that the submissive will need to rejuvenate and recuperate post-coitus.

The same show of appreciation following any sexual practice — even in the most vanilla of situations — should be administered. Sex, no matter the intensity, can elicit a wide array of emotions, from pleasurable and cathartic to downright draining. A little TLC can go a long way in reducing and soothing the overwhelming nature of sex. And while aftercare might seem like a ritual for couples in a committed relationship, even one-night-stands deserve some token of gratitude. Sex (at least good sex) comes with feelings and passion and you can’t soar to new heights without a soft, cushiony landing in place.

Aftercare doesn’t just cultivate a greater sense of intimacy, but also makes you a more compassionate and generous lover overall — a trait that will make you a better partner and bring you even more satisfying sexual experiences.

Acting ashamed or aloof, leaving suddenly and quickly, or walking away without any acknowledgment that you two copulated is the complete opposite of aftercare.

Treating the affair (and the person) with utter disregard not only comes across as selfish and cowardly but can perpetuate insecurities and sour an otherwise exciting and pleasant experience.

There is no reason sex should ever be followed by a “walk of shame.”

It is best to discuss your preferred form of aftercare with you partner:

Cuddling or spooning your partner.

Massaging his or her body using essential oils.

Holding and consoling the other person as they cry and release their emotions.

Taking a shower together and washing their body and/or hair.

Attending to any injuries that might arise from sadomasochistic play.

Adhering to their temperature needs such as wrapping the other person in a warm blanket or turning on a fan.

Creating a calming atmosphere with scented candles or tranquil music.

Making your partner a plate of food or offering a beverage.