I told some of my sorta family (my technically step moms family who I've only met recently) that I was agender a few months ago and they were like "oh we've got a they/them senior patrol leader!" (We were talking about scouts) And I didn't really think much of it at the time, thought they might've just been trying to be silly since I'm pretty sure I looked pretty nervous and they didn't want me to be uncomfortable which cool but then I was talking to my sorta cousin I suppose and she asked me "why I'd decided to be a they/them" and she wasn't like malicious about it she was genuinely curious about my identity, which I was happy about cuz I hadn't really had a chance to talk about it but thinking back on it them always saying "a they/them" instead of non-binary is kinda odd, low-key worried they think it's bad to say or something similar if that makes sense? I'll have to talk to them at some point