This is a mod that aims to add new custom family relationship bits. Right now, there are two all purpose relationship bits that are indistinguishable from Maxis family bits. The two new bits are:
Distant Cousin (for when Distant Relative stops tracking)
Considered Family (all purpose)
Both new bits are blacklisted for romance (similar to my No Romance for Extended Family Mod) and both have an affordance for Hug Lovingly. Both can have family dynamics, and both show up in the relationship panel under "family."
To add a new bit, click either the relationship panel or the Sim on the lot. You'll see a new pie menu under Actions.
Once these bits are added, these Sims can be added to dynasties like any other family member. They can also be freely added and removed.
The mod also includes Distant Relative. This is a Maxis bit. The reason I included this is because unless a distant relative is added to the family (or created in the family), it doesn't manually track. However, adding Distant Relative to a Sim that isn't actually one will result in it being removed.
Download (free). Technical stuff under the cut
Future Plans:
Add "Ancient Ancestor" and "Distant Descendant."
Add generic "Relative" bit.
Add a hidden "Blacklist Romance" relationship bit that doesn't count as family but forbids romance.
Technical Stuff
This is all new tuning, so it shouldn't conflict with anything, except relationships.relationship_track. This is how the new bits are added to the "family" tab. Any mod that adds new bits to that tab will conflict with this mod.
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This is a small string table mod that restores the familial language in the Parenthood sibling acquired bits. Someone in the server put it best: "We were childhood besties is a different idea from we grew up so close we consider each other siblings." This mod just reverts it to what it was before.
Technical Stuff
I just overrode string tables and replaced them with what was there before. As a result this mod won't break between patches.
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Sometimes modders make extremely stupid mods, things that change basically nothing and only exist for our own amusement. Today, in honor of the finals, I am releasing one such mod.
This mod changes this text:
To instead say "BANG! BANG!!!" Mike Breen would be proud.
That's it. That's literally all the mod does. It changes a string table, not tuning, so it won't break between patches.
Who's looking for this mod? Who's the market? Who even cares?
lazarusinashes is who.
Custom Family Relationships just needs some tidying up and it'll be ready to go!
go spurs go
download (free) though I'm not sure why you would lol
This mod is almost ready to release. The main thing preventing me from releasing it was that I couldn't figure out how to get the relpanel interactions to work, but with the help of plumlace, I was able to get it working.
I'll add another pie menu so that add and remove are separate. Right now there are three new relationship bits:
Considered Family. This one is by far what I get the most use out of. Consider this scenario: in my legacies, I always have gen 3 (sisters) onward always raise their kids under the same household. Then, they marry, and their spouses are able to romance each other and are smitten with each other attraction-wise. Add Considered Family, and boom, problem solved.
Distant Cousin: This was why I made this, because eventually my heirs can romance each other. After five gens since the last sibling relationship, Distant Relative is no longer tracked. But they know they're related, so I added this that way once Distant Relative runs out, romance can still be blocked and dynasties can still add these Sims.
Distant Relative: This one just adds the Maxis bit. It'll be removed if they aren't actually distant relatives.
So my question to you is this, before I finish wrapping it up and getting it ready for release:
Are there any other family relationships that aren't tracked by the game that you think would be useful that isn't covered by Considered Family? For example, Distant Relative-in-Law stops tracking way before Distant Relative does (and unlike that bit, cannot be manually added), but Considered Family can cover that.
So I'm (slowly) working on this mod to add family relationships. This mod will add all new family relationships so that they can be freely added to Sims.
Distant Relative is kind of buggy, in that it's only added in my experience if the following conditions are met:
The Sim is not born but added through CAS (haven't trialed this enough so this may be wrong)
The Sim who would be their distant relative is in the household (this I know is the case)
Now this doesn't matter much unless you're using my No Romance for Extended Family mod. With this mod, these two Sims can't romance each other, but without it, they could (they're second cousins).
That brings us to my question:
I'm thinking about making an interaction to manually add Distant Relative to Sims through the relpanel and in person. Already did the strings and everything. The problem is this: If they aren't techncially distant relatives by the family tree, the bit will be removed. No other bit in the mod will work this way because they're all new.
Do you want this interaction?
I'm pretty happy with this, the only thing is that this will conflict with any other mod that adds new bits to this panel. As a result I'll have a flavor that doesn't do this.
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CC users! You -- 2% of players, apparently! -- can go update The Sims 4 and get into the game again!
Patch notes for March 23, 2026: https://www.ea.com/games/the-sims/the-sims-4/news/custom-content-fix-incoming
And more info at my Patreon linked above -- you might still get in to find you have mods to remove or update!
It was a huge amount of (unpaid) time to figure out that this wasn't caused by CC in a way that CC creators should be responsible for, so that EA could take over, and then to do enough testing with enough users to narrow down when it didn't happen and what there wasn't in common so that a fix could come in much faster for you. Please consider supporting that two full days of effort. My Patreon is linked here, and my creator code is LUTHIENRISING.
This is a spoiler, of course, since my "vision" for the mod is for the interactions to appear and surprise you. But I've been meaning to do this for a while, so here's a list of them all:
Friendly
Thank for Good Parenting (child to parent)
Express Pride (parent to child)
Have Vulnerable Conversation (late night only, 12 am to 5 am)
Express Love (friends)
Pontificate about the Benefits of Vinyl over Digital (Music Lover only)
Tell about Engagement
Discuss Having Kids (couples only)
Check In On (Compassionate only)
Enthuse About Sims (Good only)
Share Wisdom (Elders only)
Discuss Stardom (between celebrities)
Complain about Socialization (between Loners)
Talk about Sibling (Parent to child if they have a hated sibling)
Pressure to Succeed (parents to children)
Congratulate on Fight Victory
Congratulate on Marriage
Ask for Socialization Tips (Loner to Outgoing)
Express Compassion (compassionate Sims to disliked Sims)
Give Fighting Tips (high fitness, targetsim recently lost a fight that the actor witnessed)
Express Doubts about Pregnancy (Pregnant Sims only)
Discuss Happiness (Gloomy to Cheerful)
Give a Pep Talk (Non-Loner to Loner, gives +2 to overshadow tense buff)
Reminsce about First Meeting (recently married couples)
Philosophize (high Logic)
Vent about Terrible Family (negative parenthood bits or family relationship under -50, I think)
Have a Heart-to-Heart (Best Friends, 12 am to 5 am)
Romantic
Enthuse about Relationship (couples)
Discuss Wedding Date (engaged)
Confess Love for Best Friend (Best friends only, no previous romance)
Impress with Fame (celebrities +3 only)
Compare to Masterpiece (Art Lovers only)
Beg Pathetically to be Taken Back (exes)
Assure of Faithfulness (only available after Accuse of Cheating)
Compliment "Handiness" (recent woohoo, targetsim has Handiness +7)
I Miss You (exes)
Mean - all are disabled for autonomy
Mock for Losing Job
Mock for Losing Fight
Accuse of Cheating (couples)
Accuse of Ruining Friendship (has been friends before)
Blame for Break-up (Recent breakup)
Mock Movie Taste (Snob only)
Insult Meat Eater (Vegetarian only)
Call a Freeloader (parents to unemployed children)
Make Enemy Angrier
Insult Work Ethic (mirror of the interaction for Active careers, now available outside of work)
Lecture for Life Choices (parents to kids)
Look at Me Now! (celebrities to hated parents)
Insult Children (lmao)
Call Inferior to Current Partner (exes, when the actor has a new partner)
Blame for Sadness (Gloomy)
Mock Social Anxiety (Outgoing to Loner)
Call a Failure of a Parent (child to parent)
Argue about Cheating (Sim has been caught cheating)
Insult Parenting (anyone to a parent)
Blame for Relationship Failure (exes)
Bicker (old married couples only)
Accuse of Starting Drama (depends on several factors, any one of which makes the interaction available, but can be done between anyone. Most commonly will be seen with "Aggravating Conversation" buff).
Angrily Deny Cheating (only appears with Accuse of Cheating)
Complain about Relationship (couples)
Express Relief Over Break-up (exes)
Accuse of Excessive WooHoo (Target has WooHooed with 3+ Sims)
Mischief
Share Painful Truth (reference to a certain game, Gloomy Sims only)
This is my attempt to replace No Romance for Family from Set Family Relationships. This mod blacklists all romance interactions between extended family.
This mod blocks romance between the following relbits:
Distant Relative
All step-family members
All In-Laws
Note that this version of the mod is quite strict, and depending on your playstyle can cause issues. Consider this situation: two Sims marry. Then their parents marry each other. They're now step-siblings and cannot romance. Distant relatives also track for five generations.
This isn't a problem for my playstyle, but as a result I've also made a LessStrict version. This version only blocks:
Step-Child/Step-Parent
Parent/Child-in-Law
Only use one version.
The following relationships are already blocked for romance:
Storytelling Socials is functional. I still haven't updated the dark addon though. Sorry.
Better Autonomy appears functional. I wish it was easier to test this mod but it is what it is.
Small Mods
No Constant Phone is functional.
I haven't noticed any problems with any other small mods, but as always, report any issues with them.
Hug Lovingly for Best Friends and More has been updated to include extended family. Note that this also includes Distant Relative. As result it does not replace the default package; the original still works, but I figured some people wouldn't want that added. So it's just an extra flavor. I also just added niblings to the original file.
I have another small mod coming out in just a second. Sorry for the double post.
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