It's been a while: Holidays and fun (December 20th- January 5th)
Melisa went back to Austria during the winter break so we had a going away party for her at her apartment. There may or may not have been quite a bit of drinking involved...
Then it was Christmas. We all felt kind of lonely and mopey around the dorms since the majority of our friends had left, the dorms were nearly empty, and none of us were spending Christmas with our families. On top of that, Christmas in Korea is mostly a couples' holiday and not a family one. So being single feels extra lonely. And if you weren't lonely enough on your own, your Korean friends would constant remind you that it was Christmas and that if you didn't have a date that was pretty sad.
I spent the morning of Christmas Eve watching movies with my friends in the lounge. It was cozy and felt as close to hanging out with family as it was going to get.
I met with one of the mentors from my cell and some of his friends and had some beers and chatted. I needed some cheering up, so it was nice. And then slept over at my friend's place in Itaewon where a bunch of us watched movies together. The next day, Christmas Day, Martin met me in Itaewon for dinner.
It did feel like having dinner with family on Christmas. So it was nice and comforting.
A few days later I had my first experience at a Pulsabang (Playstation room) which is basically the same as a PC방 but for consoles instead of computers. I was entertained by these permanently ruined couches haha.
I did some volunteering for an organization that made an event for Korean teenagers to relieve their stress and be able to comfortably think about their dreams and aspirations. It was fun and it was a valuable experience. We took our students to dinner afterwards and I bought them ice cream as well.
Then I had my first date with my boyfriend (the same mentor that I met on Christmas Eve...). We started dating on January 1st but since I had volunteering we had our date a few days later. For our first date we went to Insadong (the traditionally Korean part of Seoul that sells lots of Korean knicknacks and traditional Korean foods). We made a couple keychain of sorts that we each wrote notes on each side of and hung on a fence at the top of the building. It's a bit hard to explain, but Korean couples do this a lot. For example the 63 building and Namsan tower both have the same thing but instead of a vinyl note card they put locks. The top floor of the building was COVERED with them. Every tree and every open spot of fence.
After eating dinner we went to the trick eye museum. Which is a place where you can take all kinds of ridiculous pictures. It was really fun.
A few days later was Lux's farewell :(
We went shopping, ate all the foods we love, and then took silly pictures at the cute photo booths. We wrapped up with a drink and a talk at one of my favorite beer markets in Sinchon.
The next day I explored Times Square with a few friends but there was nothing really that interesting to me there. On our way home, the bus we were on crashed into a taxi (or rather the taxi crashed into our bus even though the taxi got T-boned...) and we had to get out, walk across several lanes of traffic, and then walk home. What a bizarre experience. Luckily no one was hurt.