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Here are some tips on becoming a better bottom that the tops you have sex with may not tell you either out of a desire to not offend or because they get a thrill from telling others that we bottoms cannot handle their cock ;-)

SPREAD YOUR KNEES WIDE. The wider the bottom spreads his knees, the easier it will be while in doggy style. YES! If this is the first position he puts you in, use this trick to get used to his cock. 

ARCH YOUR BACK. This will not only look sexier to him, but also make deep penetration easier and less painful.

PUSH YOUR ASS OUT. This shows the top you crave his cock in your ass. Once he is in, you can push back to the rhythm of his thrusts.

PLACE YOUR CHEST SQUARELY ON THE BED. There is a reason a top pushes your head in the pillow or the sheets. This helps arch your back and push your ass out. It’s visually stimulating, because the focus is now completely on the ass you have presented to the top. The symbolic submission is also a big turn-on to a dominant top.

RELAX YOUR ANAL SPHINCTER. Having adopted the position described in steps 1-4, you should now focus your mind on relaxing your anal sphincter. It may help to remember how you take a dump, because the muscular relaxation is identical. Steps 1-5 should, with practice, enable very deep penetration with little or no pain.

ALLOW DEEP PENETRATION. Once you’ve mastered the previous steps, you may let him spread his own legs wider than yours so he can get more directly above you to pump his cock down and deep, with his balls bouncing off your ass.

REACH FOR HIS BALLS. Many tops find this very arousing, because you are fondling the sacks that produce their sperm, affirming their manhood.

COMMUNICATE. Tell him how much you enjoy having his cock in you. Let him know if you like his scent. Ask him to go slow if you feel pain.

Additional tips may be appropriate to partners who thrive on domination and submission. In all cases, these should be within reason. Both partners must be comfortable with this. Experiment to see what works best.

LET HIM SPANK YOU. A lot of dominant men get turned on by slapping the asses they are fucking, and seeing those asses turn a rosy color.

LET HIM GRAB YOUR HAIR. Another turn-on for many dominant tops.

LET HIM HOLD YOUR NIPPLES OR MAN BOOBS. As he pumps his cock up your ass.

LET HIM CALL YOU NAMES THAT TURN HIM ON IN THE HEAT OF THE FUCK. “Bitch,” “cocksucker,” “fag,” etc. But only when used in a non-derogatory way. This is about breaking taboos (which are charged with emotional intensity) and letting both of you get aroused by embracing your (contrasting) inner natures.

LET HIM CALL YOUR HOLE A “PUSSY” OR “CUNT.” That is, after all, its functional equivalent.

I book a seedy hotel room and invite my slut over. When they arrive, I greet them at the door and make them strip off before they come in. I make them fold their clothes perfectly and then stack them neatly on a little board I put beside the front door. I make them get on their hands and knees and crawl into my room. I place a collar around their neck, attach a leash and lead them through my suite to where I’ll be entertaining for the evening. Sometimes, for added pleasure, I’ll pour course rock salt on the floor and make them walk through it on their knees.

One we are in the room, I take off the leash and make them stand. They put their hands behind their back and I handcuff them, then using black duct tape I tape over the handuffs. The entire wrist, forearm and elbow. I gag them with a knotted bandana. Then tape over their gag with the black duct tape. I take them to the bed and lie them down on their stomach. I blindfold them with a thick elastic fabric, and put earphones playing loud white noise in their ears. I tape over the blindfold and earphones with the black duct tape to keep them secure. I place a black fabric bag over their head and tape it around their neck with the black duct tape. I clip a thick black belt that’s attached to my headboard to their collar, to keep them in place. I attach ankles restraints and tie one to the bed post on one side, and the other one to the other side’s bed post. I pull the belt attached to their collar tighter to make sure they are stretched into place and cannot move. I do the same with the ankle restraints to make sure their legs are spread as wide as they can, and are locked in place.

I take photos of them bound and hooded on my bed and I send them to men on fuck apps. Grindr, Growlr, Squirt. I tell them to come and use my fuck toy. I don’t pick attractive men. I pick men than look like they haven’t fucked in a while. I pick older, fat men. I pick lonely men. I pick closeted or married men. I pick men that really, really need to use a slut to get off, but never have the chance. I pick men that will enjoy using my slut. I think of it as charity work. I’m helping out my fellow man. I invite them over, one by one, to come and fuck my whore. I watch them pound away at my slut, sweating and drooling on them, spitting and flogging them, using them as a fuck doll or punching bag. When they are done, I charge them $5 and put it in a mason jar beside the bed. Depending on how sadistic I feel dictates how many men I let use my whore. (The most I’ve ever done is 13.)

When I decide that I’ve had enough fun, I untie their ankles. I remove their hood, gag and earphones. I remove the tape and the cuffs, and I make them lie on their back. Then I fuck their used, sloppy cunt. While I fuck them, I take each of the condoms the strangers used and empty the cum onto the sluts face and rub it in. I cum in the sluts ass. I make them crawl to the door, used, sodomized and covered in strangers cum. I make them get dressed in the hallway and send them off filthy and drenched in men’s sweat, spit and semen.