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It's easier to fall for words especially as women. But unfulfilled promises are nothing more than empty sentences.

Nobody has to earn the right to recieve basic humanity like kindness and respect. If anyone ever made you think that you have to earn the right to basic kindness and consideration, know that they're not right for you. You deserve someone who genuinely listens to you, someone who takes your stand even in your absence, someone who considers your feelings, someone who cares about your comfort and safety, someone who checks on your mental health regularly. It doesn't have to a single person doing it all but a community that does these for each other. It's a shame that people don't realise it's the bare minimum people can do to make their friends/ family or s/o feel loved.

I don't know what came over me when I thought of it but, to me if you truly love someone the sight of them in tears is too gruesome. If someone can look at you crying, sobbing, wailing Because of them and still not change. You have to question whether or not they love you as much as you love them. Cuz baby change may be difficult but nothing is more difficult than seeing my love cry.

“Your heart is made of all that you love, so if I revisit what you love I am revisiting your heart. A place that was so close to home. Was”

It doesn't really occur to us how powerful words can be in our day to day lives especially while using this particular sentence “I am just stupid” or “ I'm dumb ” usually after doing something that was not pleasing to someone else. For example when you accidentally say something your friend didn't like you'd wave it off by saying " oh you know I'm dumb!! Forgive me ". What it does is giving you a easy way out of being accountable for your actions because if you acknowledge the fact that you have a reasonable ability to think and evaluate your guilt would be much much deeper. So in order to feel less bad you down play your capabilities, much like "selective incompetence" where people pretend to be bad at something so they don't have to do it.

I owe a lot to this lady. She has single-handedly solved any possible pettiness I might've had

Do we really need to be fighting? Is it really so necessary for us to compete? I believe in this day and time we have enough for everyone so the subconscious desire to compete should be dealt with correctly. Do we really need to look down upon a sister to feel good about ourselves? Has the patriarchal society numbed our nurturing tendencies so much? I don't know all the answers but I find myself thinking about it all.

My chemistry with myself is indeed immaculate 😌🌸🤧

But baby I want you I want you”

Do people not realise what it takes to be emotionally intelligent? In order to understand other's emotions at a deep level you have to be hyper aware of your surroundings that happens in an unstable environment where the child has HAD to adjust according to their parent/ guardian's moods or emotional state from time to time. Very honestly, I'd rather have children be children, happy, curious, open to new experiences rather than having a pre - teen acting like they lived thrice.

“Haasil ki beqadri aur laa - haasil ki khwahish insaan ko maut tak le jaati hai”