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Ok, so I've always been one of those people who is like ‘yeah, men and woman can wear whatever the fuck they want’. But qi mean literally, you can be girly, tomboy, both, none. So when I say this to people who instantly look at how girly and ‘basic’ I dress myself they’re just like ‘uh-huh’. So where no-one will ever read it, I kind of wanna explain why I dress how I do:

The long hair was because living in an abusive house hold I couldn’t have it. it was knotty, I had lice and it fell out randomly. So now I’m out of there it’s ok; I can look after it and its long, its soft and I love it.

I dress in short skirts. And I know there are people who will say I’m ‘asking for it’ or ‘crying for attention’. No, it’s because being abused as a kid and having the whole mum-being-a-prostitute-thing I was terrified of wearing anything that showed skin. Petrified. So now I’m safer and able to say ‘no’ to people, I love it and I feel like I’m in control of my body.

So me and my friends live together but we’re all severely autistic. So here’s some random things we do as a household which might make you smile:

 Friend no 4. does random everyday shit so that she gets into a rhythm and it calms her down. Her most recent one is making a cup of tea. We all receive a cup of tea at least twice a day.

Friend number 2 tries to feed a homeless man everyday. Every. single. day. She will make one of those little bags and will give one to a homeless man everyday. 

Friend number 3 has this website where she gives people therapy as a ‘listener’. You will get the most random bullshit on there and she will still be there trying solve their issues so she doesn’t have to confront their own.

Friend number 1 changes her handwriting. Every week she will find 1 thing about her handwriting and change it. This is terrifying on the days when she leaves notes around the house and you have no idea who wrote it because you haven’t seen his handwriting in a while. However, he puts it to good use.  He like to leave a note to people in his classes sometimes and they have no idea who it is because they all think different people in the class have left it so now everyone in our criminology class will pass people cute notes the whole lesson.