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Oughhh he doesssss, but I think he just loves having your body close as possible to him😔 just needs to have you close to him, even if it’s an inconvenient position, the hand holding just comes natural to it💗💗

Shugen and backshots that turn into prone bone my beloved……

It’s just so comforting for him. Feeling your smaller ones encased in his own. The softness of your skin against his, begging to be touched, to be held. Shugen in general just loves to touch you (sexually or not), his hands instinctively landing on some part of your body as he draws near.

Although now, inside the comforts of your shared bed, an intimate moment only for his eyes to see and behold— he realises how starved he is of your touch— as he feels the tender and soft contours of your body pushed against his own. It’s a feeling he can never get sick of, intertwining his hands in yours as he practically drills your pliant form into the futon.

It’s like a nail to the plank, y’know? The hand holding thing. Every squirm and arch of your body against his creates a distinguishable friction that seems to satisfy the primal part of him that wishes to pin you down. Him holding your hand, stopping you from moving while also having him be as close to you as much as possible???

The difference in routine and lifestyle isn't a vast difference. Acclimating to each other's habits and lifestyle isn't unheard of for married couples, and Shugen remains as dutiful to his job as he is to you, to your marriage, and ensuring you live a comfortable life together.

Life with him would be simple. A small house teetering the edge of town, a ten minute or so walking distance to the dojo, and a small walks away from the city. He actually takes his days-off now, Eizen and Sagi had to convince him there is life outside of duty, and that spending time with you inside the dojo and polishing equipment and helping w/ clean-up is not an acceptable date idea, even if you never seem to mind.

He'd often accompany you to town on his days-off, refusing to let you go alone, and adamant about not letting you carry the bags. Although he's not capable of buying grand and expensive things, he'd accomodate to your interests— saving money in secret to get you that new item you've been eyeing whenever you pass by the stalls in town.

Now, if it were from someone he likes/loves— he would blush, possibly shy away lol. Although Idk if he’d get aroused per say, maybe flattered would be the better word, depending on what his relationship is with you, and how far along his feelings are, he’d either be— too shocked to respond and pull himself away from the situation (regretting it a few days later); he’d blush and laugh awkwardly but pushes you away because he doesn’t know if he’s ready for that type of intimacy yet.

But lets imagine smth else!!! Let’s imagine he was able to reciprocate the flirting!!— I imagine he’d respond in kind, trying to reciprocate the sentiment, as clumsy as he is with that type of affection (knowing you see him in the same light as he does, it makes him a little brave) although his flirting would be a little bit more subdued? He’ll compliment you, like genuinely and think that he’s successfully flirted with you😭

If the mood was right and the intention was to get him to bed, then yes he would feel aroused? He wouldn’t sleep with you though😭 (idk why, I feel like if he’s pining for you, he’d want to keep sex until after you’re both married😭) So he’d get hard and not do anything about it asfagalah

At his blond, long lashes. The curve of jaw. The way his eyebrows rest on his face when he's not doing anything. The shocking calm reflected on his features in this state of vulnerability.

It's so weird for you to see him resting, it almost feels like you're looking at a different person. And you'd question it, if he still wasn't so him even in his sleep.

Like in the way his arm is thrown around your body, hand slightly curled at the back of your shirt like he'll pull you back in at any moment. Or how he shifts occasionally, not one to stay completely still even in his sleep. He even still has a leg thrown over you from where he must have draped his heavy limbs on you at some point in the night. And still, you find that you sleep even better with him here.

You lose track of time, watching him half-asleep. Counting his lashes like counting sheep, looking with interest at every twitch of his eyebrow or jaw. Wondering what's he's dreaming of, curiously thinking if he'd even remember. You can picture his animated voice in your head already, telling you whatever story played in his mind while asleep. And before you know it, light has gradually wormed its way into the room.

You are awaken from your reverie the moment he shifts his weight, a quiet groan escaping him. His brows furrow, conciousness surely fighting to take hold of his body already.

You feel a smile grace your lips as he mindlessly scoots closer, your nails soothingly scratching his scalp. And with a few brushes of your lips against his cheek, his lids finally open to meet your gaze.

"Morning," You greet in a whisper, staring back intently.

"Mornin', doll." He whispers, voice raspy, slow and heavy from sleep. "Someone's in a good mood, hm?"

"Yeah, you could say so." You answer with a laugh, your thumb gliding through his jaw and down his neck. And though your being extra clingy and sweet, he doesn't question it, smirking pleasantly at your affection as he pulls you even closer.

The next few minutes go on like that, the two of you cuddled close while you dote on him. Slow exhales and quiet rumbles are all that can be heard for a while, until he finally disentagles from your embrace.

You don't argue, (despite having the power to convince him to stay back some more), simply observing from where you're laying. He stretches his body languidly, the movement catching your eye.

He mumbles something you barely pay attention to, the sleep you missed claiming you from time to time as he does his morning routine. One would have loved to pay attention to, but the peeks you take of him walking around the room and talking to himself while doing his hair and makeup are so domestic they keep you relaxed.

Your eyes only open when you feel a weight to the bed, a "boo!" embarrisingly startling you awake. Shidou's grinning widely, already looking like his usually.

"Did I wake you, sleeping beauty? C'mon, can't sleep the day away."

You groan as he pulls you from your legs, effectively dragging you out of bed.

Shidou while asleep—and even half-concious—is a peaceful and different sight. You adored being able to witness it, but sleep has completely drained from his body already and he's now full of energy as usual.

He's not having the mercy to let you sleep in today, not after you woke up first. Someone has to keep him in check anyway.

With a sigh, you let him drag you wherever you wants, quietly complaining about his disrespect to the concept of slow mornings.

Sleepy Shidou gone for the moment, now go and keep an eye on your living menace.

Shugen wouldn't be any less of a good father. He's grown up around smaller children all his life. Despite being born as an only son to a merchant family-- the Yamada clan introduced him to a new environment. One where he is one of the eldests, one where tiny eyes all look up to him in guidance and wonder. He adapts to the role eventually, and he adapts to it well (although not without doubt nor insecurity).

Shugen would be a great parent, although not the most present, unfortunately. Unless his child decides to join the Asaemons in the dojo, they won't be seeing much of their father throughout the day. In the off-chance that they do join, they'll be subjected to a lot of judgement-- the unsaid expectation of everyone around them, the comparison. Being the child of the second rank of the executioners is no easy pedestal. Shugen would be the most supportive father, but he can't protect them from the heavy gazes of everyone around them.

I realllyyyy wanna say he'll be a girl dad, but he's most definitely gonna get boys😭😭. It's just inevitable, maybe 2 older boys and 1 bb girl. He'll be quite strict with his two sons, most especially the oldest, he loves them of course!! But as the older siblings, they need to set a good example to the youngest.

Oooooh imagine a lil tiny girl version of him😭😭 that would be rlly cutee

Typa girl dad that can't say no to his youngest daughter, he'll dote on her so much, she'll grow up spoiled but not rotten. Growing up with so many different people really broadens your perspective on life, he makes sure she grows up not holding any prejudiced beliefs against anyone in the dojo, he wants her to think of everyone there like her second family.

Perhaps some tension arises during her teenage years-- Shu and her constantly arguing because she can't accept his constant monitoring and curfews-- and him having a hard time accepting that she's slowly growing up and not needing him anymore. It looks like she took more than just his face, but his attitude too-- just not for the things he hoped she'd value.

(The only concern I have with him having kids is him passing down his.... ya know, his twisted view of justice towards criminals. We don't need three more exact copies of him, sorry :((().

A = Affection (How affectionate are they? How do they show affection?)

Not too big on PDA, although the lingering glances, how he seems to hover near you when you’re around, the shared quiet laughter as you both talk amongst yourselves— it’s hard not to see how Shugen seems to look much more relaxed when he’s with you.

B = Best friend (What would they be like as a best friend?)

Spends majority of his free time with you, he’s a good listener, willing to listen to you ramble about your day, or talk in-depth about your hobbies. If you’re happy to share your interests with him, he’s willing to try them, though he may not be good at them at first.

C = Cuddles (Do they like to cuddle? How would they cuddle?)

When he’s at that stage where he feels comfortable having you in his space, he’s much more handsy with you, always needing to be touching you in some capacity, and if he’s not able to— just being in your general vicinity is enough for him. He likes holding you in his arms, but he’s not opposed to you doing the same— he won’t admit it outright, but he melts into your touch as soon as he lays his head on your chest— it’s honestly more relaxing for him this way, the warmth of your body, the way your hands card carefully through his hair, the slow beat of your heart lulling him into a peaceful sleep… it’s like having a big cat plop on top of you, you feel bad waking him to tell him your arm is now numb from the prolonged position, and the added weight on top of you.

He’s also naturally warm, very helpful during winter, but not so much during summer.

D = Domestic (Do they want to settle down? How are they at cooking and cleaning?)

He does, he really does— although a small part of him believes he can’t. Will his future partner accept him for what he is? What his job entails? The possible consequences of being associated with him? He can’t find it in himself to put someone in that position.

If he does ever find himself settling down, he’s willing to help with cooking and cleaning up, an uncommon sentiment for men during his era. He sees you as his equal, someone he married not out of obligation or power, but because he loves you— marriage is a shared responsibility after all, you’ll both walk together through the process. Although he may not always be home due to his position at the Yamada clan, he bends whatever time he can, claiming a few more hard earned rest days each month just to spend more time in your presence.

E = Ending (If they had to break up with their partner, how would they do it?)

Seeing you hurt just from being associated with him, the ire of the townspeople against the executioners isn’t something to be belittled, he’s dealt with it ever since he was young, but for someone not too used to that sort of treatment… if it’s not too late to undo, he would much rather let you go than see you suffer the same isolated fate as him and his fellow Asaemons.

Another problem would be if you were a criminal— associated, or hiding the fact that you were from him— or worse off, both. The betrayal of it, to have him let down his guard and then stab him the back with it, it’s debilitating. He’ll guard his heart more intensely than ever before.

F = Fiance(e) (How do they feel about commitment? How quick would they want to get married?)

If he has feelings for you, I’d say the process would be fairly quick, it wasn’t unheard of in their time period after all. If you want more time, he’s willing to wait as long as you need him to, as long the promise of you being his remains the end goal of your relationship.

G = Gentle (How gentle are they, both physically and emotionally?)

He tries to soften himself for you, his voice lowered almost explicitly as he talks to you, eyes losing their sharp edge once they spot you amongst the crowd.

If you were already in a relationship with him, expect to have his hands somewhere around you whenever he’s near, although he dislikes showing too much affection in public and his actions reflect that, exercising some restraint on himself by limiting touching you too much— he cares too much in keeping up an image— especially in front of sir Eizen. His most preferred way of keeping close contact with you is by putting his hand on the lower side of your back, or on your shoulder. It’s not an overwhelming nor too grand of a gesture, it’s comforting, his hand is harm and gentle, as it find itself comfortably on top of you. Letting you know he’s here, and he’s not going away anytime soon.

H = Hugs (Do they like hugs? How often do they do it? What are their hugs like?)

It’s definitely uncommon for him to receive such gestures, although he’s hugged a few of his younger pupils— unable to stop the warmth that spreads throughout his chest at their achievements or determination to keep up their training. He might have received some hugs when he was young, particularly from Shion and Sagiri when they were both kids, but it’s been a long time since… to feel that same type of warmth from the person he loves the most… it melts his heart, he folds into the embrace, tightening his hold on you as he feels tears well up in his eyes from the overwhelming feeling of affection he has for you, it’s a feeling he keeps chasing ever since.

I = I love you (How fast do they say the L-word?)

He’ll say it pretty early in the relationship, though he abstains from saying it too soon, as he fears you not reciprocating it back. He waits for the right time, maybe a few months into your relationship. He’s wanted to say it to you for a long time (ever since he realised he has feelings for you). It’s only shared in quiet moments where he thinks no one else will hear, whispered lovingly to your ear like a promise.

J = Jealousy (How jealous do they get? What do they do when they’re jealous?)

It’s rare for him to feel that type of emotion, especially towards others, but seeing you smile and laugh heartily with the others— to faces he’s not familiar with, it creates a a small dent in his heart. He starts thinking about how you rarely laugh like that in his presence, how your smile is often more small— not unlike the effortless grin sporting your face right now. He trusts you, he does. But his sudden quietness sends alarm bells in your head, you pat him on the shoulder, hand falling to your sides as you envelop your hand in his owns and squeeze— the action seems to bring him back to his senses. His gaze fall to your joined hands, then to your face, he spots the fondness in your eyes and he feels the tension in his shoulders slacken. You always know what to do, don’t you?

K = Kisses (What are their kisses like? Where do they like to kiss you? Where do they like to be kissed?)

He likes to kiss your hands, loving how it slots perfectly in his own, like a perfect puzzle fit.

He won’t tell you where he likes to be kissed, he’s too prideful to even admit that to you (I don’t think he knows either tbh), but he’ll accept any type affection you wish to shower him with. He’s lived far too long without that type of closeness nor intimacy in his life, he doesn’t know how he’s lived this long without even experiencing it, but now that he knows how it feels, he refuses to let go of it.

A kiss on the cheek, a warm hug or both—it’s a silent expectation of his, one he never quite voices out, but enjoys greatly as soon as he comes home from work. He’s not the type to sulk over missed chances, but he’ll be more quieter than usual if he doesn’t get either or, you’ll notice by the quick glances his spares you— as if trying to ascertain when the moment will soon come.

L = Little ones (How are they around children?)

If they’re not from the dojo? A bit awkward, he’s quite rigid with them at first, making polite conversation with them as you would with any adult. However, his actions says otherwise, he’s gentle with them, he knows how fragile kids are, emotionally and physically. His awkwardness stems from the fact that he does not wish to scare them or make them cry.

M = Morning (How are mornings spent with them?)

He wakes up quite early in the mornings to leave for work. Even on his days off, he still wakes up early, ever the most disciplined man you know. On the rare days where he sleeps in during his days-off, you usually find yourself tucked safely away in his arms.

N = Night (How are nights spent with them?)

Shugen doesn’t sleep until much later into the night, you usually sleep in seperate futons— side by side in your shared bedroom. You sometimes find him reading late into the night, small candle light present. Or sometimes you find him unable to sleep, face scrunched up too much to be able to sleep comfortably. You tap him on the shoulder to let him know you’re still awake, his face relaxes as he turns towards you, he asks if you can’t sleep— you nod your head, you ask him if you can sleep next to him tonight— he agrees with a small flush to his cheeks, opening his arms as a silent agreement, holding you closer to him. He finds himself sleeping not too long after this. Feeling much lighter throughout the day.

O = Open (When would they start revealing things about themselves? Do they say everything all at once or wait a while to reveal things slowly?)

Its… hard at first. His past, specifically his childhood, is mired with memories he doesn’t wish to recall nor comeback to. If you haven’t known him since he was young, you’ll have to wait for a bit for him to open up to you about it, and it happens when you least expect it, maybe your making dinner together for the Yamada clan, and he recalls memories of his mother as he peels the skin of the vegetable he’s holding— he tells you about how he used to watch her in the kitchen as she did her work— the tears come soon after, it doesn’t take long for you to piece together the fragmented details. He’ll reveal the rest of it in due time, though not in one sitting. It’s best to let him tell you at his own pace.

P = Patience (How easily angered are they?)

Not easily angered, he has a lot of patience, there’s not much you can do to elicit that type emotion from him— he trains with kids and teenagers after all, he’s practically grown a second skin for their antics. He trusts you well enough to know your intentions aren’t done with ill intent, and if it were to ever escalate into a few quips back and forth— he’ll try to discuss it with you at a later time, when you’ve both calmed down enough to have a more productive conversation.

Q = Quizzes (How much would they remember about you? Do they remember every little detail you mention in passing, or do they kind of forget everything?)

He’s quite observant, and he uses those skills to be more thoughtful with his actions, he won’t remember every little detail about you— but he’ll pass you the condiments he knows you like to use every time you’re eating out, he’ll buy you trinkets or souvenirs from his travels. He’ll start massaging your back when he sees you stretching it too much, he’ll pat your back firmly when you start coughing.

He remembers the details you tell him about your hobbies, sometimes he’ll even have you show him the materials you use and he’ll make a mental note to buy them for you when he comes to town the next time. His father used to buy hairpins for his mother, so he tries emulating that same type of tradition with you, by buying you the same variety of trinkets or accessories that you frequently rave about or collect.

R = Remember (What is their favorite moment in your relationship?)

There’s a lot of moments in your relationship that he wishes to return back to, to hold within his heart and keep locked away—only for him to see and go back to.

It was a simple arrangement, your marriage was a small group, consisting only of his fellow Asaemons and your immediate family members.

Marriage is a formal event, in their era, for a clan consisting of high ranking samurais— marriage is a tool, a social event, more so for the convenience of two families, rather than for love. He had accepted that one day he would have to conform to those same ideals, resigning himself to a life dedicated to bettering the Yamada clan’s name.

But by the strange twists of fate, he was able to avoid such a tragedy— perhaps the gods took pity on him— a sad life of a boy who had everything taken away from him at such a young age, and as compensation for the darkness of his past, they gave him the shining light if his future— they gave him you.

Shugen watches in silent wonder, as you sit beside him. His hands feel sweaty as they rest atop his knees, the cup of sake has been passed, it lays in front of you both in the centre. Your fates have been changed, he is now forever yours, as you are forever his.

He cries extensively throughout the process, silencing his whimpers by biting his lip. The wedding ends with you wiping your husband’s tears and the bloodied and bruised skin of his lips. If memories were ever lost in the afterlife— he’d beg the gods to at least let him remember this one.

S = Security (How protective are they? How would they protect you? How would they like to be protected?)

Quite protective, if you’re a normal civilian, he’ll propose the idea of you moving into the Yamada clan early into the relationship— even when you’re not married, for your protection, you don’t have to necessarily stay with him if your uncomfortable, he can give you his room if you wish!— you have to reassure him multiple times that you are very much capable of taking care of yourself even without his protection.

He likes to keep things under wraps, he visits you during late evenings, when people on the street have already gone and the heavy gaze of judgment isn’t placed upon your shoulders. During these times he can spend his time with you in ease. He worries a lot about your safety, especially when you travel alone someplace further away, he’ll ask you to send him letters if you’re planning on leaving for extended periods of time, it stresses him out, it’s not you he doesn’t trust, it’s your surroundings.

T = Try (How much effort would they put into dates, anniversaries, gifts, everyday tasks?)

Not too fond of big celebrations, he’ll remember special occasions such as your birthday or your anniversary— but the downside to this is that he’s busy most of the times, so planning an elaborate event is out of the question for him. He’ll come home earlier in those days, bring home some sweets or your favourite foods. He won’t expect you to create an elaborate plan— he’d much prefer a quiet evening if he could, although he wants to take into consideration your own wants for the day as well, he’s appreciative to all of your efforts nonetheless. He’s just happy to go along with what you like.

U = Ugly (What would be some bad habits of theirs?)

Shugen’s the type of friend/partner who tries to give you advice on how to fix the problem when you vent to him. Unless that’s what you prefer. Not the best when you just want someone to talk to about it. He’s a good listener tho.

Not really vocal about his wants or needs, but it’s not hard to read him, as his expression usually gives him away.

I’m gonna hold your hand when I say this, you will come after the clan, he’ll try to ensure he has days off and that he can come home early during special occasions— but if they’re in dire need of his help— he’s going. The order of operations is Yamada clan, you, the other Asaemons, then him.

V = Vanity (How concerned are they with their looks?)

Not too concerned over his looks, he cleans himself up pretty well, he has too after all, he has a reputation to uphold— keeping up appearances is just another part of it.

W = Whole (Would they feel incomplete without you?)

Once he’s fallen for you, it’s hard for him to let you go (not that it ever occurred to him to do so). He doesn’t mind being away from you for a short period of time, but he wants to keep in contact with you during it. Be it through letters or through little souvenirs, he wants to know you’re faring well— anything less would rattle him a little bit.

X = Xtra (A random headcanon for them.)

Meticulously follows recipes down to the exact measurements. His food always tastes good.

Also takes cleaning duties seriously, you will not be escaping from him if you’re on duty.

Cannot lie for the life of him— He tries to do everything right, so on the off chance that he does something wrong, or godforbid bad— it hits him hard. Like he’d consider putting himself down like a dog— type of bad. Will turn himself in as soon as he can, and folds immediately under no pressure when questioned.

Y = Yuck (What are some things they wouldn’t like, either in general or in a partner?)

Hedonism, laziness and selfishness. All characteristics of someone without much regard for themselves or others. He cannot see himself even considering befriending, let alone being with someone like that.

Z = Zzz (What is a sleep habits of theirs? Or with their partner?)

Sleeps lightly, and is easily woken up to the smallest of sounds. Sleep doesn’t come easily to him, it’s been a problem ever since he was young, he’s gotten used to it already. When he does sleep, he usually sleeps on his back, arms folded in front of him. He doesn’t move a lot in his sleep, maybe turning twice on his side during the night, but he’s not a restless sleeper. The only times it happens is when he can’t sleep, in which case, he goes out for short walks outside before slipping back into bed.

It’s no surprise that he sleeps better with you by his side. Sleep comes much more easily to him when he can feel your warmth by his side, the calm beat of your heart, the soft snore coming from you in your sleep.

There are some days when an unexpected problem arises, or he has to clean up after training, during these times he’s unable to go home on time, it’s something he’s discussed with you a few times in the past— to not to wait for him if he doesn’t come home at a certain time. He usually eats dinner at the dojo during these days, just so when he comes home, he can quietly slip into your shared bedroom. You share separate futons for this reason, as he doesn’t want to disturb your peaceful slumber.

A = Aftercare (What they’re like after sex)

Soft, gentle, caring. Like he always is with you and your body. He’d try to coax you to take a bath with him if he can, even carrying you to the bathhouse if you’re too tired to walk. But if you’re both left tired after a long session. He’d most likely just wet a clothe and wipe you down first, and then him second. He holds you close to him after, wanting to feel your skin close to his, the warmth of your body calming down his nerves, helping him fall asleep.

B = Body part (Their favourite body part of theirs and also their partner’s)

Hands, is what he would say if you asked him directly, and he does love your hands— whether they’re calloused soft, or rough, as long as he can hold them in his own, he doesn’t really mind. He loves holding them during sex, always reaching out to envelop his own in yours in anyway he can.

But if he were to actually be honest about what he wants— he likes the outline of your back, and the way it connects all the way down to your ass. He especially enjoys trailing his hand from your shoulders, towards the dip of your spine, and the way it always seems to make you jitter, he likes how he can easily see the goosebumps it sends across your skin. It’s a sight he never gets tired of seeing.

C = Cum (Anything to do with cum basically)

He loves seeing it glisten on your skin. Yours or his, the shine of it under the luminescent light of the moon, the way it makes your skin look so glossy even in the dark. He doesn’t mind it on his skin, but he much prefers seeing it on you. He likes seeing it drip from your hole, seeing it flutter from his ministrations— stretching in and out from his absence and seeing his and your juices mixed together leak out coating your thighs messily.

D = Dirty Secret (Pretty self explanatory, a dirty secret of theirs)

I’d say he’s pretty vanilla with his interests. Although something tells me he might be interested in trying Shibari, but is too prideful to say it outright, unless you bring it up to him, then he’ll pretend to relent to your wishes— but deep inside he’s quite happy you asked him.

He feels dirty for wanting this, but he wants you to sit on his face. The feel of your thighs on his face has always been pleasurable, but imagining you using him as a seat— the thought makes him shamefully hard.

He considers himself a man of discipline and restraint, as per the code that he dutifully follows. However, on one mission where he had to leave you alone for a long, extended period of time—secretly, with a lot of doubt and shame— he brought your handkerchief/or loincloth with him, tucked it safely in a small clothe inside his pocket, and used it for the nights where he deeply misses you or yearns to feel your touch. It’s better than being distracted all night right? He needs to be well rested and focus on his job in the day, after all. It’s shameful, he knows, but you’ve always been forgiving towards him. You never get that piece of clothing back btw.

E = Experience (How experienced are they? Do they know what they’re doing?)

None. He does know about it, Eizen would have probably given him some sort of vague explanation about the birds and the bees in his teens or something like that.

He knows what Genji and Kisho are up to, maybe even got invited by them for a special occasion in Yoshiwara, but he would have most likely turned them down, thinking of himself above those types of baseless desires.

He’s probably heard a lot of it from Jikka’s drunken rambles when he has to wake him up for his job at the execution grounds. But hearing it from him probably disgusts him too much to even reconsider going back to the thought of it.

He seems like the type to wait before marriage, I’m not exactly sure about the Yamada-clan’s views on virginity and purity, as only higher class samurai families cared about those types of things.

But he’s too devoted to his job to even think too deeply about sex— hence, no experience. You’re first time would probably be a little bit awkward if you’re both inexperienced, but if you’re more knowledgeable than him— he’ll reluctantly, let you take the lead. (I say reluctantly because a part of him still believes it’s his job to lead in bed. This idea dissipates later down in your relationship when he starts understanding your wants and starts putting them first before his. Your pleasure is his pleasure after all.)

F = Favourite Position (This goes without saying.)

Taking you from the back, or anything that has him holding your hand as he fucks you into the sheets.

Unless you’re taking the lead then he would prefer you ride him as he holds your hand, always needing to have your hand enveloped in his bigger ones as he watches you slide up and down his dick.

G = Goofy (Are they more serious in the moment, or are they humorous, etc)

More serious. Maybe you can manage a small laugh out of him if you try, but most sex acts with him is shared in silence, with either grunts or moans of pleasure, and the slapping of skin being the only thing you can hear from the room.

H = Hair (How well groomed are they, does the carpet match the drapes, etc.)

Black, curls just a little bit. Never really bothered to cut/trim it as it doesn’t really bother him. He would trim it if you asked. He wouldn’t really mind if you didn’t do anything to yours either.

I = Intimacy (How are they during the moment, romantic aspect…)

He tries to ease you into it, he’s not the most knowledgeable man in this field, but he tries to be gentle for you. Tries to make the experience as pleasurable, and pain free as much as he can, in these quiet acts of intimacy, he would always put your needs first before his. That’s his duty as your husband after all.

J = Jack Off (Masturbation headcanon)

White knuckled restraint, he’d hold off on it for as long as he can, but he’s probably jacked off to a few erotic picture books or two, just to get rid off the pent up tension— and probably felt immense shame afterwards.

He has you for that now, and nothing can really beat the feeling of your warm insides on his cock. In the off chance that you’re not up for it, then he’ll silently take care of it in another room, imagining the image of you as he rifles through your shared laundry, smelling your used kimono, underwear or handkerchiefs— anything that carries your scent. Committing to memory the smell of you as he rubs one out.

K = Kink (One or more of their kinks)

Cunningulus, he likes the feel of your inside squeezing around his tongue. How your cum gushes into his mouth as you finish.

Dacryphilia, normally he would worried about seeing you cry at any points of the day, but seeing tears flow down your eyes, the little drool that slips past your lips as he fucks you into the futon, it makes him drill into you faster.

L = Location (Favourite places to do the do)

He cares too much about his and your image to ever do it anywhere outside the safety of your home.

But you could probably coax him to try and do it in a secluded part of the woods if you tease/rile him up enough.

M = Motivation (What turns them on, gets them going)

Seeing you cum, or having the feeling of your warm insides squeeze around him. Seeing you too fucked out to process his words or unable to walk straight after sex is also another motivation for him. But overall, it’s just you having the most pleasure in sex that brings him the greatest joy. He wants to make you happy everyday, and every night (preferably on his cock)<3

N = NO (Something they wouldn’t do, turn offs)

Unless it’s a fuck or die situation, he wouldn’t have sex with a criminal.

Also wouldn’t agree to anything that involves possibly putting you, himself or the Yamada-clan at risk of judgement.

O = Oral (Preference in giving or receiving, skill, etc)

He loves both giving or receiving, most foreplays with him end with him going down on you and making you cum. He loves seeing his cock disappear in your mouth, the outline of it in your cheek, the feel of his cock in your throat— but he won’t force you give to him head if you don’t want to.

P = Pace (Are they fats and rough? Slow and sensual?)

Slow and sensual at first, but after you’ve cummed on his cock once, it steadily turns fast and rough as he tries to catch onto his own release.

Q = Quickie (Their opinions on quickies rather than proper sex, how often)

He’d prefer to take his time with you, sex is an intimate act— almost sacred to him. He doesn’t want to sully it by forcing you to come quickly.

R = Risk (Are they game to experiment, do they take risks)

Not much of a risk taker, he prefers to stave on the safer side of things. For both yours and his sake.

S = Stamina (How many rounds can they go for, how long do they last…)

At the start of your relationship, he most likely won’t last more than two rounds. But with enough practice he can maybe last around three or four rounds— by then he’s probably passed out after.

T = Toy (Do they own toys? Do they use them? On a partner or themselves?)

Unless you’ve agreed on the Shibari. I don’t see him using anything else. It’s either you cum on his dick, his fingers or his face. Nothing else.

U = Unfair (how much they like to tease)

Not much, he lives to see you cum (preferably on his cock) so he’d rather not drag it out for too long.

V = Volume (How loud they are, what sounds they make)

Initially, he had this weird belief that men shouldn’t be making any sounds during sex, so the most you can hear from him is small groans or grunts.

You have to tell him outright that you want to actually hear him be vocal during sex, it will fluster him, he might not abide quickly, but soon he’ll find it in himself to be more open about being vocal during it.

He strikes me as more of a heavy breather/whispery or gasping type of moaner does that make sense?. You can get him to let out a full on moan, but it’s usually when he’s about to cum, but even then it’s more of like a strangled whine if anything.

W = Wild Card (Get a random headcanon for the character of your choice)

Started crying the first time you had sex, and every time you say you love him with so much tenderness during it. He never really imagined he’d get to love someone like this in his life, it fills him with so much emotion, he might accidentally get himself soft, or hard, depending on the situation.

X = X-Ray (Let’s see what’s going on in those pants)

Shower six inches with a slight curve, has a bit more girth to his dick.

Y = Yearning (How high is their sex drive?)

Not a relatively high libido on the norm. It only ever rises when he’s around you. In private he can’t really keep his hands off you, sexually or not, he wants to be near you at all times. It gets worse when you’re pregnant, the sight of your full belly, your little waddle as you walk. It drives him crazy with lust.

Z = ZZZ (… how quickly they fall asleep afterwards)

Unfortunately, he cannot sleep until he’s cleaned himself up. It doesn’t have to be a full bath (although he would prefer that it was), but as soon as he’s finished wiping— if you’ve done more than three rounds, he’s practically knocked out.